What will a fuck buddy describe as good sex?

EdBennett — Wed, 24 Aug 2022 22:58:30 +0000

24 Aug 2022 - 23:58 | Tags: how to be a sex god, good sex guide

We all want to be having good sex. All of us. We also all want the person that we are sleeping with to also be having good sex. For most of us, part of having good sex is that the other person is there with us, on the same journey to having good sex at the same time. Part of our pleasure and excitement comes from their pleasure and excitement. The two feed each other leading to an ultimate climax (quite literally) and orgasm. So what is good sex?

Good sex is personally defined

Good sex is actually whatever you decide it is. In the words of Shakespear “thinking makes it so” and this applies to sex. What ever it is you think is good sex for you, is good sex. It is a little like asking what is the best cuisine. One person will love Indian food, another Italian. That the first person is 100% correct that for them Indian food is the best does not mean that the second person is not also 100% correct as well. So think about what it is that makes sex great for you. Once you have it, pursue that, because that is what is going to get you to the sex that you want to be having.

What happens prior to the sex is important

Everyone knows that penetrative sex is “sex”. Most people describe foreplay as being part of “having sex”. Very few people realise the power of what happens before the sex even starts. The mindset with which you enter having sex can completely change how much you enjoy it. If you have had a tough day, you are stressed out and are thinking about work right up until the moment you engage in sex, you are unlikely to have good sex. You need to get yourself in the right headspace… and what is even sexier is when the other person gets you in the right headspace. That can be excellent! If you can orchestrate a long build up over the day, that is extremely powerful. Perhaps a text in the morning, a little dirty phone call it the afternoon to tell them exactly what you are going to do to them that evening, then a delaying activity when you see each other to stretch out the suspense so that by the end your fuck buddy is practically dragging you back to the pad to get to it. This is going to set you up for success. It is going to lead to great sex.

So if you want to have great sex with your fuck buddy, bear this in mind!

How to have amazing sex part 5: Change something to make sex better or rekindle a dying fire

EdBennett — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 19:50:18 +0000

20 Nov 2016 - 19:50 | Tags: how to have amazing sex, good sex guide, sex advice

Okay so we all love sex. Even the people that say they don’t are lying. They do like sex, they just don’t want to say it. This could be for a number of reasons. Some people have real trouble getting laid so they want to lie to themselves about not wanting it in the first place, that way they are not a failure because they “didn’t want it anyway”. This is a little like being back in the playground at school when you didn’t want the ball anyway - just after someone stole the ball you were really enjoying playing with. It is a lie, but you go with it because it is better than the reality.

Some people have a partner, and the sex has gotten boring or worse still it is no longer even happening because things have gotten mundane. They have gotten so boring you both gave up. When this happens people are trapped in their situation, and they start to feel like maybe they didn’t really want to have sex anyway. Same lie, different reason. When this happens you have 3 choices:

Fix the problem somehow and start having great sex together

Start sleeping with someone else, either as an affair or you can be open about it and get a fuck buddy or another no strings attached relationship. If you take this route, I would go for the later of these two options. It always works out better in the longer term.

Break up.

What you can not do is stay where you are. Do not, under any circumstances stay still. That is ot a good place for either of you to be, so man up and do something about it, even though what you have to do may be one of the hardest things you have done in your life.

How to rekindle the fire / have better sex

So one of the top tips to have better sex – which can also be used to re kindle a dying fire, is change something. We all like stuff to be different, to change. We all like new things and variation. It is amazing what a difference even the smallest change can make. Buy a new outfit – don’t let her see – then take her out to dinner before fucking her brains out. Even you looking different to how she is used to can help you to stir things up. Making her look at you differently in any way will do the same thing – because it is different, it shakes things up. Don’t worry about the change being too small – anything will have an effect. The bigger the change, the larger it will stoke the sexual heat.

So go ahead and mix it up a little, you won’t regret it. More articles on how to have amazing sex here.

F Buddy - good sex guide

What will a fuck buddy describe as good sex?

Good sex is personally defined

What happens prior to the sex is important

How to have amazing sex part 5: Change something to make sex better or rekindle a dying fire