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How to be a sex god. Top sex advice for men (part 6)

EdBennett — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 20:48:30 +0000

31 Jan 2022 - 20:48 | Tags: how to be a sex god, being better in bed, British sex advice

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. If you are looking for a fuck buddy then you have come to the right place. We help our members meet other like-minded individuals in order to adult date. Adult dating has become bigger than ever in recent years. More and more people have a friends with benefits relationship set up, or another no strings attached relationship. Being able to “booty call” someone when you want to is the best. Everyone loves sex. If we were all having more of it, I think that there may finally be world peace!

Here we take it further though. We would like to help in ways beyond finding a fuck buddy. We would like to help you be a sex god. The better sex that you are having, the better sex your partner is having and ultimately the better time for all. Getting better in bed is a win-win. We have already run a series of articles on how to be a sex god. This is part 6 of the series. We will be exploring one key piece of advice that can take your sex to the next level.

Explore all erogenous zones, not just the obvious

It is natural to focus on the genitals when having sex and seeking to stimulate our fuck buddy. There is nothing wrong with this at all and it should be encouraged. That is a way to have good sex, maybe great sex, but if you want to be a sex god you have to expand your horizons. There are other erogenous zones that you can play with other than the genitals. Perhaps your fuck buddy might enjoy having their ear nibbles, or their neck stroked. Some people love the brush of a breast against a particular place, maybe an arm. Some women find nipple stimulation so arousing that it can literally bring them to orgasm! The key here is to learn what your fuck buddy likes, because it is different for different people. You can find this out in different ways. The trial and error approach is a good one. Try something and see what the results are. Make a mental note of what they like then repeat that! The other way is to just ask them. My personal approach is to combine the two. Do something (like stroke their neck) and ask at the same time “how does that feel” or “do you like that”.

So I urge you to expand your horizons and a sex god you will be!

How to be a god in bed – top sex advice for men (part 5)

EdBennett — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 20:41:24 +0000

21 Jan 2022 - 20:41 | Tags: how to be a sex god, British sex advice, sex advice, getting good in bed

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, where we help like minded adults find each other for some no strings attached fun. We have been running a series of sex advice articles aimed at men who want to be a god in bed. When I say god, I do mean “god” and not just “good”. Most sex is already “good” by virtue of the fact that you are having it. The best sex is the sex that you are having right now! Want to take your good, to great and eventually to god? You have come to the right website! Whilst our primary purpose is to help people find a fuck buddy or a no strings attached relationship, we also pride ourselves on helping people stay in those relationships or, at the least, make the most of them when they are happening. One of the ways we can help you do that is by helping you to be better in bed. Following on from our last article on how to be a god in bed, here are some more of our top tips to help you excel when it matters.

Talk dirty to your fuck buddy

It is a simple thing to do yet a daunting one for a lot of people. Talking dirty can take you out of your comfort zone if you are unused to doing it. A lot of people can get quite nervous when trying to talk dirty. We wrote a longer article on dirty talk here which you can read, but in short talking dirty really can lead to bigger and harder orgasms. It can deepen the pleasure, strengthen the bond. If you are not sure where to start, the easiest thing to do is to tell the person what you are going to do to them before you do it. Then tell them what you are doing as you are doing it. The extra engagement verbally can really take things to the next level.

Get a sex toy for her

Stimulating the clitoris is a really important part of bringing a woman to orgasm. If you want to be a sex god then you have to do this. Some women need really strong stimulation and some women need machine levels of stimulation! So get involved and get a sex toy. A small vibrator in a drawer, ready for the right moment, can go a long way.

Get a sex toy for yourself

Gods have a great time in bed themselves. Gods have a great time, so consider getting yourself a sex toy to spice up your own sex life. Show your fuck buddy how to use it. If it makes you come, she will feel all the better for bringing you to orgasm.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men (part 4)

EdBennett — Fri, 31 Dec 2021 23:58:23 +0000

31 Dec 2021 - 23:58 | Tags: British sex advice, how to avoid bad sex, getting good in bed

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. Here at the f-buddy website, we not only want to help you meet the perfect hook up, we also want to ensure that when you do meet the perfect person for some casual dating, that you have a great time in bed. Before we start with the advice I think it is helpful to set the context. Everyone can have sex. It is hard wired into us and in my view no one is “bad” at sex. Yes of course we can better at pleasing ourselves and our fuck buddy over time, but I think it is important to remember that the best sex is the sex that you are having right now. The past sex is gone and the future sex is yet to be, so no matter how it “compares” with other times, the sex you are having is always the best! Now that is established, I would like to share some top tips on how to improve things for you and your fuck buddy. As started in our earlier articles on how to be a god in bed, here are some more top tips for men on how to be better in bed.

Begin foreplay outside the bedroom

We often can think that the sex and the foreplay all happen in the bedroom. If you are doing this, you are missing a great opportunity to start your foreplay where it can really begin, which is almost at any time. It can start from when you first get up on the morning with some flirting. It can continue through the day with a well-placed text message or two. It can certainly happen over dinner or what ever activity proceeds making it to the sex venue. So start early so that by the time you make it to the bedroom your fuck buddy is gagging for it.

Use lubricant

If you are not using lubricant, then this is an easy win. Adding this to the mix makes everything smoother and more lush. Popping some on the side of the bed is a really quick way to make the sex better for both of you.

Consider different orgasms

Both men and women can orgasm from ways other than penile penetration. For women this is more widely known, but for men they can also orgasm from stimulation to the prostate. If you have not experimented with this, consider trying it.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men (part 3)

EdBennett — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 22:53:56 +0000

14 Dec 2021 - 22:53 | Tags: British sex advice, getting good in bed, sex tips

Welcome to the fuck buddy website. If you are here, it is because you are either looking for a fuck buddy or you have already successfully used this website to find one and you are now looking to up your sex game. Either way, we would be happy to help you! With the number of members having more “medium term” fuck buddies, we thought it would be good to do a series of top sex advice articles on how to be a god in bed for men. The idea is to help you increase the quality and intensity of the sex that you are having. This is most easily achieved when you are sleeping with someone you have slept with before, so the advice in this article and in our previous article on how to be a god in bed are most relevant for those with a friends with benefits set up in place or a fuck buddy they are keen on hooking up with more than once. However, being better in bed is always a good thing, so this is also helpful for pretty much anyone who is having (or looking to have) sex! So with that in mind, here is my bog top tip for this month on how to be a god in bed for men.

Do your sex research with your fuck buddy

Doing some sex research alone is a great way to prepare yourself for sex. It can build confidence and provide some much-needed guidance or advice about the mechanical aspects of having sex. That being said, if you want to have a better time in bed with your fuck buddy, consider doing the research with you fuck buddy! I am not talking about reading boring biology books on anatomy, this can be fun. I am suggesting that you watch some porn together or an adult movie. Perhaps read some erotica to each other, or read some erotic manga, what ever it is that you and your fuck buddy might be into. It is important that you have a conversation with your fuck buddy about what you are into before choosing your “research” method. If one of you isn’t into films, books or comics avoid that as the choice. Once you have chosen the medium doing the “research” together can really heat things up before you go to town on each other.

So get your research done and have fun!

How to be a god in bed – part 2

EdBennett — Tue, 30 Nov 2021 19:09:41 +0000

30 Nov 2021 - 19:09 | Tags: getting good in bed, British sex advice

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, your one stop shop to finding a like minded adult to have a no strings attached relationship with. In a previous article we spoke about how to be good in bed, giving some tips designed for men. We understand here the important of good quality sex. Yes quantity is helpful, but less sex of a higher quality can be a great approach. Having high quality sex takes some effort. You have to want to have better sex and be willing to do something about it. In fact, the effort required is relatively small, every man can be better in bed with just some small changes, but many men do not think about this. Some of this is to do with the abundant access to sex. When you can just more to the next person, you think less about whether the other person is having a good time, focusing more on yourself. This is a mistake. If you want to be having the best sex of your life, you need the other person to also be having the best sex of their life. The sexual experience is a shared one between you and your fuck buddy, so it is really important that you think about both parties. The advantages to better sex go beyond simply increasing the quality… it also increases the quantity as they come back for more. So, think quality first and the quantity will come with time. With that in mind, here are some top tips for men on how to be a god in bed.

Schedule the sex

In all the films that we see, sex often happens spontaneously without any preplanning. Whilst this can happen, more often having a little plan in place is a much better idea. If you put a little planning into it, you can enhance the sexual experience for both of you by ensuring the right time, place and mood for the sex with your fuck buddy. So have a little think about it, and remember, you don’t have to be explicit with your fuck buddy that you are planning the sex. Allow them the plausible deniability and that will increase the pleasure.

Avoid routine

That being said, planning is good but avoid routine. If you have a regular fuck buddy, do not meet and have sex every Thursday evening after meeting at the pub. This will quickly make it feel like it is mundane even if it is not. So mix up the times and the places to keep things for you and your fuck buddy fresh.

Do not underestimate the quickie

When people think about being a god in bed, they often think it takes a long time. Yes taking your time can be helpful, but never forget that a good quickie in the right time and place can be great! The expectations on a quickie are lowered, so actually it can be less intense for both you and your fuck buddy and still feel like great sex. So consider slotting this into your “to-do” list for you and who ever you are hooking up with.

Want to be a god in bed? Top sex advice for men

EdBennett — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 16:46:21 +0000

18 Nov 2021 - 16:46 | Tags: getting good in bed, British sex advice

Everyone wants to be good in bed. Whether they want to be good in bed for themselves, for the other person if they are a pleaser, or both(!) everyone would enjoy being better in bed. For most people, both of these reasons align. If the person you are sleeping with is having a better time, then you are also having a better time, so it really is generally a win-win. On the adult dating circuit this can be even more important. When you have a fuck buddy (or you first pick up a fuck buddy) the focus is on the sex. If you are not good in bed, or if at the least there is no potential for the sex to be good (because we all have our performance stunted on the first time that we sleep with someone new) then that person is not going to want to come back for seconds (or possibly even stick around for seconds that same evening). If the quality of sex improves with time and experience with your partner, it is really important to ensure that you actually have sex multiple times with the fuck buddy you hooked up with for the first time. A good friends with benefits relationship is one that lasts, and that means that the sex is good! So how can you be better in bed? Well, if you are a man look no further. Here are some top tips on how to be a god in bed in the first in our series on sex advice for men.

Yes, use your sexual organs, but also use your mouth

On the face of this it may sound like I am telling you to always go down on your partner. Whilst that is rarely a bad choice, in this case this is not the message. Talk to your fuck buddy. By expressing your desires, what turns you on and turns you off, you will have a better time in bed and they will have a better time for your enhanced engagement and enjoyment. So even the first time you hook up, talk to your fuck buddy.

…that being said, also use your mouth!

It has been shown in studies that women, unlike men, require a greater diversity of sexual stimulation in order to orgasm. Men are simple creatures, women less so. With that in mind, do go down on her and ask her what gets her going. Once she tells you, you will seem like a god for following through on the advice.

Have sex elsewhere than the bedroom

Yes, the bedroom is comfortable and the most obvious place to have sex, but actually you should consider taking it elsewhere. There is an enhanced excitement from taking sex to more unusual places. The science points at increased sex when in other countries or whilst on holiday, but to be honest just sleeping with your fuck buddy in the kitchen or living room is enough. So, get it on elsewhere.

So there are out starting tips. Come back for more advice later in the month.

Less is more? Nonsense! With sex, more is more!

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Aug 2018 15:12:52 +0000

20 Aug 2018 - 16:12 | Tags: British sex advice, quality over quantity

We have an old phrase that less is more. There are many situations and occasions where this stands strong. Sometimes the less you say in an email, the more that the main objective of the email comes across. When you are talking to someone, the less you say, the more your words carry gravitas. The less food you put on a plate, the more people pay attention to tasting the food that is there. When someone asks for a recommendation for somewhere to go to eat, if you recommend one place they will likely go there, if you give them 10 options you will leave them with decision paralysis. Less is more.

When it comes to sex and the sexual marketplace, this does not hold true. In this environment, more is more. When you are first contacting people online, the more messages you send out, the more likely you are to hook up with some. When you do have sex with a fuck buddy, the more times you have sex with them, the better your night is. The more times you sleep with a fuck buddy the more likely they are to want to come back for more. The more fuck buddies that you have in your life, the more easily you will attract newer fuck buddies and the happier you will be with your sex life. When you are seducing someone, less really is more! The less you talk, and the more you do, the more successful you will be.

This is not an area of your life where restraint is beneficial in any way. When you diet and eat less food, this can benefit the body and make you healthier and happier. When it comes to sex, having less does not produce any health benefits, the opposite is true! The more sex you have, the happier you are, the more healthy hormones you have working their way around your body, the more you are motivated to be fit and successful… less it not more. More is more!

So when your fuck buddy makes a booty call, your default position should be to say yes. If you have the option of having more than one fuck buddy, you should take that option. When you are having sex, put aside any thoughts of holding back to “sweeten” things, this is not a good choice. More is more, never forget it.

Why good girls are going to hell

EdBennett — Sun, 20 May 2018 18:43:51 +0000

20 May 2018 - 19:43 | Tags: being sexy you, British sex advice, hot girls

There is something about being naughty that we find intrinsically sexy. Haloween is a great example of this. The girls all come out dressed in satanic short dresses, with devil horns and that naughty look in their eyes. We love something about someone who is about to break all the rules in the bedroom, and we are turned on by the forbidden and the naughty. One of the all-time greatest sexy roles in all of television and film is that of Liz Hurley as the devil in Bedazzle. Admittedly this was to do with the fact that she was at her very peak of hotness, but the role was also a big part of it. As the devil she was smooth, sexy, and totally without boundaries. She was a girl that has already gone to hell, and come back, making her the sexiest woman on the silver screen. In this article I would like to talk about what a good girl is, and thus why they have “devil” like qualities.

What is a traditional good girl?

A good girl is someone who always obeys the rules. The study hard, they listen to their parents, they toe the line. If you actually met someone like this, they would be the most boring person in the world. We think that this is what we want, but really is not. This person is not going to have imagination, spunk or any instinct that has not already been repressed or removed.

What is an actual good girl?

This is someone who is true to themselves, someone who listens and follows what they know to be right and good. This is much harder to do that simply following the rules, as the two are often in conflict. This person listens to what they want, and follow it.

So how is a good girl bad?

We all want sex. It is hard coded into us, and a good girl that listens to herself is someone who embraces this. They want to have sex, and they want to have great sex. This is where real naughtiness comes from. It comes from being true to yourself, from really following what you want. From accepting who you are and following through on that.

Going to hell?

I think that the real way to create your own hell on earth is to deny who you are, to reject your instincts and basic needs. This is real hell because you are lying to yourself. So are good girls going to hell? In the traditional sense yes, but in reality, I think that the only way to live is to embrace who you are, whomever that really is.

No sex please we are British – get over it

EdBennett — Tue, 20 Dec 2016 19:57:12 +0000

20 Dec 2016 - 19:57 | Tags: no sex please we are British, British sex advice, sex for brits

Here in the UK we are a little bit uptight about sex. The whole “no sex please we are British” thing is something of a joke, but the roots where it came from still seem to very much be in place. We don’t like to talk about sex openly, it is seen as crass and rude to do so, and there is an underlying attitude that sex is not something that one should be actively seeking. We see it as a dirty secret to be brushed under the carpet, something to be done on the quiet and to never be mentioned. The truth is far from this.

Sex is a normal part of human existence

There are lots of things that we need to survive as humans, and right now I am talking about the base fundimentals that literally sustain our existence:

Water
Air
Food
Shelter
Clothes

I want to take this right back to the basics here – to the fundamentals of life. These are the things that keep us breathing. When we then zoom out from us as individuals and look at us from the point of view of a race, the human race as a species, several other things come into play. One that cannot be ignored nor denied is that of sex. If as a species we stopped having sex, we would be wipped from the planet earth in the space of a generation. The last human would be the one to outlive the rest. We need sex to exist, we need it to continue as a species. Without it we are fucked – or should I say without fucking we are fucked! The old testament bible literally tells us that God commands that we “go forth and multiple” – the act of sex is hard coded into who we are!

So why is that we don’t talk about it?

When we moved into being more or a farming community, and away from being nomadic tribes, things changed. Coupling became more about the exchange and control of land and wealth. If you married someone then you shared al your assets. This meant that monogamy was a must, you were passing wealth down, you wanted it to go to your own kids. So it was that monogamy was to be enforced, and since there was no contraception, having sex easily become branded a bad thing, thus the first “slut” was born.

Times have changed, so let’s get over it

Not only are condoms plentiful and easy to get hold of, there is even now a range of options to prevent accidental child birth. So it is time we got over it and moved with the times.

Sex is a great thing, for all sorts of reasons, so let’s stop being so archaic and start celebrating people who are having it, rather than having a go at them.