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Put away the smart phone to have more sex

EdBennett — Fri, 31 Jan 2020 21:32:58 +0000

We are now in the year 2020. The new decade has arrived and things have permanently changed in the way that we communicate in comparison to a couple of decades ago. The number of phone calls that we make has dropped dramatically, replaced by other forms of communication. The number of emails we send has jumped. Easy access to data now means that the number of SMS messages that are sent have also dropped having been replaced by messaging via apps such as Facebook messenger or WhatsApp (which is also owned by Facebook). People are reaching out to other services, such as Telegram or Signal, but essentially these are simply a more secure form of WhatApp.

The expectations of these forms of messaging has also changed. We are now connected 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to all our digital forms of communication via our smart phones. This means that people always expect a prompt reply… which always pushes us to also feel obliged to give a prompt reply. This is particularly difficult when it comes to work emails, which leaves us checking work emails even at weekends and evenings. Work emails generally come alongside a certain amount of pressure and stress. Depending on your work, this could be just a very small amount of stress, or if you are in a fast paced high pressure city job, this could be a lot more. Stress is one of the things that supress out libido and desire for sex, so regularly dosing yourself with stress in this way is not helpful to your sex life.

More that this, using your phone takes you away from being in the moment and with the people that you are with. You may be flirting with someone and things are all going well. Checking your phone regularly tells the person that someone who isn’t even there is more interesting than them. It is not a good way to build rapport!

Even in a long-term relationship or with an established fuck buddy, pulling out your phone pulls your consciousness to another place, to somewhere else. It is hard to build up a sexy vibe with someone when you are checking Facebook every few minutes.

So, try putting your phone away if you want to have more sex. Pressing the off button on your phone for an evening is a great way to bring you back into the moment. The more you are truly present with the other person, the more you can and will build intimacy with them and the more likely you are to have sex.

There are now more fuck buddies in 2018 than ever before

EdBennett — Wed, 17 Oct 2018 09:33:30 +0000

17 Oct 2018 - 10:33 | Tags: Uk Fuck Buddy, having more sex, hooking up

We are entering the last few months of 2018, and what a great end to the summer it has been! The warm weather has kept on for much longer than usually, giving the UK those extra days of sun and relaxation that are so good for the soul. Even coming into October 2018 we have had some really great days. As the years roll on, we have seen huge changes in our society here, in the way that we think and the way that we do things. There have been some really nice changes for the positive, and one of those is that today, in 2018, there are now more fuck buddies than ever! There are many reasons for that, and I would like to take you through this.

We have become less stiff upper lip!

There is a stereo typical view of a British person as someone with a stiff upper lip. If that was the case, it is something that has been passing very quickly. We are no longer the prudish people that we were. The sixties saw a huge movement towards free love and sex, and that has only gotten better with the invention of the internet. We are much more open about having open relationships. Having a fuck buddy has become a much more normal thing to do, and as it has become more normal, more people started doing it. The more people that become fuck buddies, the more fuck buddies became available and it became a self -increasing system. Having sex has become more talked about, and the need much more acceptable. All of this has led to there being more fuck buddies in 2018 than ever before.

Online adult dating sites

Online dating sites have become more and more acceptable. As people have become more used to this, the use of adult dating has increased, and this has massively upped the number of people with fuck buddies. The easier it is to find a new person to booty call on a Friday night for a no strings attached hook up, the more than people are doing it!

Access to the internet has increased

In 2018 more people have access to the internet than ever before! The increased use of tablets, mobile smart phones along with the spread of WiFi everywhere now means that more people than ever can hop online. This means more people can access adult dating websites and thus more people are out there looking for a new fuck buddy and thus becoming a fuck buddy themselves!

With more people than ever, if you are looking for sex, why not log in now and see if you can find someone like minded for some no strings attached fun?

Make a sex bucket list

EdBennett — Mon, 20 Feb 2017 19:17:08 +0000

20 Feb 2017 - 19:17 | Tags: sex bucket list, having more sex

Bucket lists are brilliant. They are an excellent way to help you live the life that you want to live. They get a lot of put downs from people who feel that it means people are “just doing things so they can tick them off the list – they aren’t really enjoying themselves”. Well I understand this viewpoint, I do get where this is coming from, and the answer to this is in how you make your list. If your bucket list is filled with things that other people think would be cool to do, and you don’t really care, then you will find yourself in this situation. As soon as you are doing something because someone else thinks that it is cool, you are not going to enjoy it, you will be that guy who is just doing things so that he can cross them off his bucket list. You do not want to be that guy. If instead your list is filled with things that you really want to do, then you are actually doing some great goal setting that is going to help you live the life you want. So why not do it for sex?

A bucket list is literally the list of things that you want to do before you die, the things that when you are passing from this world you can look back on and think “yes I did many awesome things in my life, I am ready to die”. Sex is such an important part of that. It is literally the start of how we were created, at our core as humans we don’t just love it, I think that we need it. So when you die, if you have not had the sexual experiences that you wanted, you will know it. So how do you ensure that you get laid in the way that you want and the number of times that you want? Make a sex bucket list!

Once you have made a sex bucket list, you will have specific sex acts to aim for! You will know what you want sexually, and you can go out and get it. What a threesome? Great now when you meet someone bisexual it is a massive bonus! Always wanted to tie a girl up before taking her from behind? Well if it is on the sex bucket list, then when you meet a girl who is up for a little naughtiness, you will likely recognise it!

Make a sex bucket list, and get excited about getting laid in the way that you want!