Understand your fuck buddy: why people lie about what they want in bed

EdBennett — Sun, 31 Jul 2022 14:36:38 +0000

31 Jul 2022 - 15:36 | Tags: sex and lies, sex fantasies, being better in bed

Sex is a natural process and, frankly, everyone should be having more of it. I have said it before and I will say it again, if more people were having more sex, we would all be in a happier place! One way of increasing the quality of your sex is to understand it better. If you can understand your fuck buddy better, the better you can work to please each other more and more. Sex, whilst it really is a natural process, is also a complicated thing! Some people have studied it for a lifetime and never managed to learn everything about it. It has a complex science behind it… but when actioned best it is often approached as an art (with creativity). It is a powerful force as well. Let us not forget that ultimately Helen of Troy “the face that launched a thousand ships” to war was done so because one man wanted to have sex with a woman. To help you with this, here is something that you probably didn’t know about sex.

Ever wondered why people lie about what they really want in bed? Here is why.

Most people, during some points in their life (sometimes more), think that they are weird in regards to their sexual desires and wants. We all think that we are special snowflakes, that we are unusual. This is in the deep recesses of our hearts and you may need to dig really deep to discover it. It is there. This means that, if we think we are weird, that we can develop guilt about the fact that we are not normal when in reality we are universally deviant. To be abnormal is the norm. We are left in a place where to communicate what we want is to risk what the other person thinks of us. So we hold back for in truth the fear is justified and founded in reality. Nothing erotic is so with someone who isn’t “into it”. With the wrong person it is simple disgusting, horrible, detestible… and thus our sexual partner comes to detest us and even the most hardened of us will find pain and rejection in that. This is why it is hard to tell people what we really want…

…but if we can tell them we may find the solace that is sought. With two people coming together with an acceptance of the act, what can ensue is beautiful travesty. As both parties accept each other with their sexual desires as deviant as they may feel they are, and even more enact and embrace them, true extasy is found.

So if you wonder why you do not share even with your fuck buddy with whom you should be able to be open with sexually, this is why. This is also the reason to take the leap and do it anyway.

Jump.

The reasons that she broke up with you are lies

EdBennett — Sun, 12 Mar 2017 19:02:41 +0000

12 Mar 2017 - 19:02 | Tags: sex and lies, being dumped

You have just been dumped. I mean you have had the proverbial kick to the nuts that we all get at some point, and you have had your ass handed to you. You have been dumped big time, and damn it hurt. Firstly I would like to offer my condolences. We have all been there, but that does not help you right now. Not with your issues, just know that there is a lot of brotherly love coming at you right now from all of us. Now let us get on to the reasons that she told you when she broke up with you, why they are all complete lies, and why you need to completely ignore everything that she told you immediately.

She doesn’t really know why she dated you in the first place

If you ask a woman after a seduction, why she had sex with that guy, what was it he said or did that made her want to fuck him, she will give you a list of reasons. She might talk about how charming he was, or manly, or she has a thing for beards... I mean the list is endless. It is also all nonsense. It is post fact logic, it is all post justification for a decision that she made without logic. You see the reason she slept with you in the first place was not logical, it was emotional. Asking a girl why she slept with you after a seduction is like asking a drunk guy how he lost in a fight - the whole thing was out of his control in the first place and he can’t really remember any way so he just says some words so that he feels he answered the question. She is the same. She does not have a clue.

She does not know why she is dumping you – it is just all false data.

So when she breaks up with you, the same is true. It is an emotional decision, not a logical one, so any logic that is used to explain it is all bollocks. It is meaningless. Anything that she tells you about why she has broken up with you is false data, and needs to be ignored. If you try and change your life, alter your habits and action based on what she says in order to avoid a future break up with another girl you are going down the wrong path my friend! You are wasting your energy! She has just spoken total horse shit, so you must discard her words immediately.

So remember – her reasons for the breakup are all lies, even if she is striving hard for honesty, she is incapable of it.

F Buddy - sex and lies

Understand your fuck buddy: why people lie about what they want in bed

Ever wondered why people lie about what they really want in bed? Here is why.

The reasons that she broke up with you are lies

She doesn’t really know why she dated you in the first place

She does not know why she is dumping you – it is just all false data.