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Staying sexy with your fuck buddy while social distancing

EdBennett — Fri, 27 Mar 2020 17:22:02 +0000

27 Mar 2020 - 17:22 | Tags: Coronavirus Sex, being sexy, keeping your girl

The coronavirus has arrived and everything else has promptly been shut down by it. People are no longer allowed to go to the pub, and even those that would have chosen to break the rule no longer have an open pub to go to. All the places that you might have met or taken a fuck buddy to before an evening of passion have been closed down: restaurants, cafes, cinemas, bars… you aren’t even allowed to take a walk in a park holding hands unless your hands are 2 metres long! This can mean there may be a period where you cannot have sex… particularly if you find yourself inside a 7 or 14 day quarantine period where you really should not touch anyone else. During these times, how can you keep things hot? There are creative ways to keep the sexual fires burning during any gap that you might have. So to help you out, here are my top tips on how to stay sexy with your fuckbuddy while social distancing.

Sexting

Sexting is something that you probably did when you were in the very early stages with your fuck buddy. It is also something that usually dies off pretty quickly as it is replaced with actual sex. Sexting can be a great thing to go back to. You both have probably already done it, likely with each other, so it is comfortable and you both know what you are doing with it. Sending each other sexy or dirty messages is a great way to turn each other on remotely, reminding your fuck buddy exactly why they chose you.

Phone sex

Phone sex can be great. As humans, we are generally quite reliant on what we see, on visual stimulus. However, when it comes to having sex, we can be as turned on as easily by all the other senses: the touch on our skin, the taste of another person’s sweat and salt, the sound of another person’s pleasure! Sound plays a key part of our sexual experience, and phone sex can transmit all of this, live, both from and to your fuck buddy. Try giving your fuck buddy a call then start to talk dirty… remember to make sure that you and they are alone when you start, you want to be able to join in physically.

Video Sex

Technology is now at a point where video calls are clean, high quality and completely free to make. This opens up a whole new sexual world where you can now see and hear your fuck buddy from a distance. Why not take advantage of this by giving your sex partner a call one evening, then turn the conversation to subjects a little raunchier than usual. There are all sorts of games that can be played as well. A personal favourite is where you agree that you are going to tell each other what to do and they will obey. You can take it in turns to control their body, telling them what to do step by step till you bring them to orgasm… all from the comfort of your armchair. Once you have done it for them, they are going to be sure to want to return the favour!

So there are my top tips to staying sexy with your fuckbuddy while social distancing is still in place. Remember, you only have to get through the quarantine period together before you can go back to having real sex, so all of this could just be seen as extended foreplay!

Why guns are sexy

EdBennett — Wed, 18 Sep 2019 16:53:37 +0000

18 Sep 2019 - 17:53 | Tags: sexy costumes, being sexy

Thanks to the internet, the world is now a smaller place. If someone posts something up, whether that is an article or a photo, people can access that article or pic from all over the world. This means that over in the UK, we are now heavily influenced by the culture in America. Nearly all the content that is put online from the USA is in English so we hardly even notice the difference when we read it. There are a number of things that have come over from the USA when it comes to our reading. Included among that is definitely the hot women! There are some stunning America models and actresses that have a huge following over here England or Scotland. Large parts of the USA have also embraced the fuck buddy culture even more than we have and adult dating is strong over there. So many of the fuck buddy advice articles that you might find have been written in America. A lot of the online information on how to have a friends with benefits, which is an American phrase, us also written in the USA because that is where the wording originated from. Thus what we think of as a sexy pic has been altered by America, and pictures of girls with guns is a great example of something that has only grown due to them being imported in.

Here in the UK, we have very strict gun control, so the number of people with access to a handgun is limited. In America, it is completely different. You have the right to bear arms, and this means being able to buy everything from a small .22 rifle, through to an M16! When I was shopping over there in Walmart for my groceries, I passed the ammunition aisle where I could pick up a whole range of bullets, some of which were especially powerful. What America has done, is make guns sexy.

Guns have become sexy for a number of reasons. Firstly, they represent power, and power is almost always sexy. Next, they tend to be long, phallic, objects, and thus reflective of sex in their imagery. I think the biggest thing that has made them sexy is how they have been marketed. In the USA, gun sellers actively make and push pictures of sexy women with guns. They push the images, making the mind associate a gun with a hot girl. The more they do it, the more we think about sex when we think of guns, and then the more they produce pictures of girls with guns. A lot of girls have voluntarily, without a financial incentive, posted pictures of themselves with guns. This adds to the overall image and relationship that we have between guns and sex in our minds.

Want to try this out? If you are a girl, snap a picture of yourself with a weapon and pop it up as your fuck buddy profile picture and see the extra hits that you get. Guns have become sexy, fact!

What makes a man sexy

EdBennett — Tue, 22 Jan 2019 14:39:02 +0000

22 Jan 2019 - 14:39 | Tags: being attractive, being sexy, how to be sexy

As humans, we judge people by very different standards depending on the environment that we meet them. For example, when we meet someone in the work place, we are looking for something that is polite, courteous and helpful. We look for someone that is competent as this is often important as well. Primarily, the “nice guy” will do well in the workplace. When it comes to choosing a fuck buddy, however, the rules are completely different to at work or anywhere else for that matter. What makes someone likeable to someone’s parents is very different to what makes them attractive to a potential sex partner. For a woman this is judged heavily on how they look, but also on how affectionate they are as people. Being kind and caring, and coming across as such, is a really great trait when it comes to the sexual marketplace. In this article I would like to talk about what makes a man sex in order to help all those guys out there get the fuck buddy of their dreams!

Appearance

Yes, appearance can make a difference, but this really only at the extreme ends. If you are 6 foot 5 and have a 6 pack, yes you are going to get a lot of interest from potential friends with benefits. On the other end of the scale, if you are short, extremely over weight and smell like you haven’t washed for days, then yes you are likely to be quickly excluded as a potential sex partner. However, if you are somewhere in the middle, then becoming better looking is not something that is going to make much of a difference to your life. You should focus on the element below to up your fuck buddy hit ratio.

Being dominant

Being dominant and displaying signs of being dominant are a definite turn on. Scientists say this comes from our cave man days when being dominant meant you were better able to protect your partner. This still works to date but is now judged differently. It is now more important to do things like dress smartly, having a high-powered job displays dominance as well. You can also do it in your actions. Order at the bar, make decisions when hanging out. Choose the place you are going to eat. It is small but simple steps that display dominance. This is not about being a nasty person, it is just about being someone who is able to know you are mind and carry out your desires. It is about being able to walk and move in the world in the way that you want to.

This also translates to the bedroom. Most women want a man who is able to take charge within the confines of full consent of course. So if you want to be more sexy, try taking charge a little more, you will find it really helps.

What makes a woman sexy

EdBennett — Sun, 30 Sep 2018 14:51:09 +0000

30 Sep 2018 - 15:51 | Tags: being sexy, being attractive, hot woman

When it comes to the sexual marketplace, our individual value is completely defined based on how sexy you are. All other elements are said to play a part, but the truth is they are meaningless. They are all seen through the lens of how sexy you are. If you are sexy, then they will be seen a positive. If you are not sexy then they will be seen as negative, it really is as simple as that.

So in our quest to secure the most desirable mate, the most successful and prosperous partner with whom to couple with and have children, our natural instincts try and push us to become sexier. The real question is, what makes someone sexy? This is different depending on if you are a man or a woman, and in this article I will focus solely on what makes a woman sexy.

Looks

For a woman, the biggest thing they are judged on is their looks. I am making no judgement here on whether this is a good or bad thing, and in this article, I will stay well away from any politics surrounding this matter. All I will say is that currently, in the world that we live in and the way that we raise our children, the way a woman looks is of paramount importance to their value in the sexual marketplace. If a woman is fat or overweight this can plummet their stock hugely, whilst a woman who is in reasonable shape for her natural size and build will have far more options when it comes to choosing a fuck buddy. If a woman wants to increase sexiness, one of the best things she can do is lose weight. This is simply true.

Dress

How a woman dresses is also important. Interestingly this is so closely linked to looks, that it could have been included above. I keep it separate because how you alter this is different. To change your physical looks, you have to work on your body. To change your dress code, you go shopping and spend money. You can throw money at this at make yourself sexier, with physical looks you have to do exercise and control your diet, a much harder task indeed.

Conduct

How you carry yourself, of course, affects how sexy you are, but note that this comes third. It is not the primary thing. Being good looking is more important than acting sexy, so bear this in mind when you are deciding what to work on. Start with how you look over how you are.

Good luck finding your fuck buddy!

Follow your passion, the sex and the rest will come

EdBennett — Sat, 20 Jan 2018 08:55:09 +0000

20 Jan 2018 - 08:55 | Tags: being sexy, passionate sex, being sexy you

We have been taught to lead neutered lives. Don’t run, don’t cross, no splashing, no bombing, obey the rules and everything will be alright. This may have been true once, but this is no longer the world that we live in. Automation is eliminating much of the mundane and ordinary work, which means that the only people who’s jobs or work is truly safe are the ones where passion is involved. Where rather than doing something ordinary, we will be doing something extraordinary. The best way to do this… follow your passions. Do the thing that you really want to do, that gets you rolling out of bed in the morning and wanting to start your day. Without this, you are in decline.

How does this relate to sex? Well, the same is true for getting laid. We see someone on the train we like, but we are neutered. We already know that the rules say that we shouldn’t talk to them, so we don’t. We let another opportunity pass us by, because we have restricted our passion.

In the “wild”, if you say, someone you liked, that you sexually were attracted to, you would have gone over and made it known, fearlessly and forwardly. What did you have to loose? Nothing. So what have you got to loose now? Nothing… yet the hesitation is still there. Why? You have been NEUTERED. You are restraining your passions because that is what you have been taught will keep you safe, make you respectable. Yet this is a fallacy, this is simply not true. This is the lie that you have been told.

There is nothing more sexually attractive in this world than being wanted. There is nothing more primal, more instinctively fuck-able than a person who wants to fuck you so hard they can barely restrain themselves. They want to rip your clothes from your body and make you scream with pleasure. They want to own, ravish and conjoin themselves with you in the heat of passion so strong that neither of you are in control of what you are doing. THAT is sexy. THAT is passion.

Yet we have forgotten this. Both men and women have had it bred out of them for reasons of control and civilisation. What is say is get back it touch with that. Follow your passion, and regardless of the outcome, you will know that you lived your life.

Throwing her against a wall is still sexy

EdBennett — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 18:42:35 +0000

20 Apr 2017 - 19:42 | Tags: being alpha, being attractive, being sexy

When dating there are so many things that you want, but the one thing that remains consistent is that you want to be sexy. When with a fuck buddy there are many tastes and desires you may have, but again the one thing that remains true is that you want to be sexy! This is true on both sides. For the purposes of this article I am going to be talking about a man and a woman, but equally this could be 2 girls or another combination where one basically takes a more dominant role – because between two people no matter where they both sit on the spectrum of dominant to submissive, one person is always more dominant than the other person. Again for the purposes of this exercise I am also going to presume that it is the girl that is the more submissive in the sexual encounter. Why? Well statistically speaking it is far more likely. There are more submissive women in the world than there are dominant women, so this is the most likely set up.

As a man, there is nothing more sexy feeling than really taking a girl. I mean really taking her. Seeing a girl, deciding you want her, then taking her. It is as simple as that. It is the sequence of base instinctual action:

See
Want
Take

It is so powerful, and it makes us feel sexy, I mean really sexy. It puts us in a controlling position, makes us feel like we can bend reality to our will. That feeling fills us with confidence, and this is a self fulfilling prophecy, because the sexier we feel the more attractive we are to another person! So this is just great for the man doing the throwing... and there is no better expression of this than throwing a girl against a wall and kissing her. It is the ultimate see, want, take, and can be deployed in an instant.

The girl loves it even more

The best part is that the girl loves it even more! She becomes the object of that primal desire, the sexy being that is so attractive that you as a man have lost control and just thrown her against a wall because you want her that much. There is nothing sexier, and it is something that remains sexy even now.

So if you haven’t done it in a while, throw a girl against a wall and kiss her. Damn, you will both love it.