Sex in the city

EdBennett — Sat, 28 Oct 2017 21:39:00 +0000

28 Oct 2017 - 22:39 | Tags: sex and the city, finding sex

Today I am going to be talking to you about sex in the city… and I am not talking about the American television show aimed at a largely aging female demographic. Instead, I am talking about having sex in whilst in the city. The ups and the downs of your love life if you are (un)lucky enough to like in a big city. This could of course be any city at all, but for now I am going to (for the purposes of this article) restrict myself to talking about London as my example. Why London you ask? Being one of the greatest cities in Europe if not the world, and a hot bed tourist attraction as a place to come, it serves as a great example of what life is like living in the city.

The big down to your sex life when living in the city.

Cities are expensive, and London is no exception to this. Whilst it may be one of the greatest cities in the world, the price tag seems to correctly reflect this! Even the base costs are high. The rent, the food, the day to day costs of living are really quite something. This means that to live here you have to work hard, really hard, to make ends meet. This means working long hours, working weekends sometimes, and the stress levels can be quite high.
The problem with this in terms of your sex life, is the question of where you fit it in? When do you have time to take people out, to spend time with them and get to know them, to build connection let alone drag them back to yours to get naked with?

The big upside – maximum choice!

Dating can be a bit of a numbers game. Meeting the right person or compatible people can be time consuming and in smaller villages the choice simply isn’t there. With a city you have maximum choice! You are drowning in potential partners! There are girls and guys everywhere you look, and the best thing is they come in two broad types, both of which are ripe for the picking for their own specific reasons.

The tourist! They want adventure, and they want passion. They want it now and in a week they will be gone… so this is an easy way to sleep with someone the first time you meet them, and then never have to see them ever again no matter how it goes! This is a great way to clock up your numbers.

The local! They are in the same position as you, they are time starved, busy, so they also don’t want the commitment of long dates! They will slip into your lifestyle really well, and will be up for going straight to the bedroom without the faf of the long dates every time.
Either way you are in a winning position, with a sexy night just around every corner.

Finding a fuck buddy: The city VS the country

EdBennett — Sat, 27 May 2017 18:57:37 +0000

27 May 2017 - 19:57 | Tags: country sex, sex and the city

When you are looking for a fuck buddy, location can make a huge difference to the kind of fuck buddy you will find, how long it takes you to find them, the quality of that fuck buddy, and the quality of the sex that you will end up having as a result. They say location is important when you are choosing where you live, well that is very true when it comes to the kind of sex you are going to end up having. I could compare specific areas, but I think what might be more useful is to look at how you might fare in a city VS the country, two very different environments. There are pros and cons to both, I am going to talk about them here.

The City

The city has one huge advantage to it. It has volume! There are a lot of women in the city, there is a greater density of people. More people means that you can play the numbers game more. Contact 100 people and 10 might respond, and of those ten you can then have sex with 1 of them. The density is there, and the numbers really do work for you in that sense.

Everyone is more likely to be slutty. This means that finding a fuck buddy will be easier, but holding on to one longer term if you like them will be harder.

There is loads to do in a city, and thus loads of opportunities to meet women. If you like to go out before you fuck someone, then this is easy to do.

You can get lost in the masses of people. If there are more women, there are also more men. This means that sticking out is much harder, and takes more effort.

The country

There is a low population. This means that there are a lot less opportunities as there are simply less girls in the area to hit on.

When you are new to the area, you stick out massively and this can be used to your advantage! In small country towns everyone knows everyone else, so if you go there you might be the only new bachelor to be in the area! This can mean that you are fresh genes to an otherwise stagnant gene pool – and woman will really want to have sex with you. There are a lot less of them, but the ones that are there are going to be easier to get into bed.
The culture is simpler and there is less to do. If you bore easily this could be really bad for your over all life game, and certainly the going out before in the run up to the sex is less interesting... that being said there is a lot less to do, so having lots of sex can become the order of the week! So if you like having lots of sex, then this could really work for you!

Personally, I think that the sexual ideal is to live in the city, but take visits to the country where you hook up with people more easily in the short term.