Sex trends that are coming in 2020

EdBennett — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 20:43:12 +0000

26 Feb 2020 - 20:43 | Tags: future predictions, the science of attraction, new year resolutions

We are now a few months into 2020 and the year has gotten off to a fantastic start! We have had a whole host of new members join the fuck buddy website looking for no strings attached relationships. As we move into 2020, what was once taboo has become more and more the norm. Having a friends with benefits relationship is something that has become more commonplace. As things change, here at the fuck buddy website, we decided we wanted to take a look at what may be in store in 2020. To help out, we have some predictions from the sex toy company LELO to help us look to the coming year.

Open and Poly Relationships are going to become more normal

The previous years have seen a huge exploration into different genders and sexual preferences. As these have become more and more acceptable, more people that have a preference that they otherwise would have ignored are “coming out” and living their truths. This means that in 2020, we are likely to see more open relationships and poly relationships. Having a fuck buddy will become more normal as more people chose to do it. Bring on 2020 I say!

More single women

In 1971 the average age for marriage was 22.4 years. In 2018 it became 31. As people marry later and later, we have more women single for longer. What we are also seeing is women choosing to remain single rather than marry! This means we are going to see more and more single women as time goes on. This is not to say that they will not have fuck buddies or hook up, only that their “status” will remain as single.

Sex dolls

According to LELO we will see more sex dolls being used! There is a café in London that is planning on opening as a sex doll café. You go in, have a coffee and a sex doll session before popping back to work or to your next meeting! Radical steps like this are going to make the use of sex dolls more acceptable, and according to LELO, mean there are more of them in the world.

Artificial Intelligence

Artificial intelligence is already a reality in many other industries, why should it not become a sexual reality? According to LELO, by using biometric data, AI will be able to start to learn and predict our habits and desires, thus being able to tailor its delivery to better satisfy us sexually.

So there are some of the top predictions for 2020. Having a great year.

Why we find people of different colours, races, heritages and countries intrinsically sexy

EdBennett — Thu, 13 Jul 2017 20:20:11 +0000

13 Jul 2017 - 21:20 | Tags: sexy, the science of attraction, sexy science

I love the summer, and all the sexy people that it brings out of the wood work! All the many beautiful people that seem to appear from nowhere, all the extra bodies on display as the warm weather reduces the need for concealing clothing and covering up coats. There is something about it that is just magical. Sexy women everywhere, what more could I ask for? I can tell you the answer to that is, sexy foreign women!

There is something about a good looking girl from a different background and culture that is particularly sexy. I don’t know what it is – but sex with someone of a different skin colour, race or background is just delicious! I could ask for anything more. This got me to wondering what is it about those foreign fuck buddies that is all that more tantalising? Let’s find out.

Sexiness is physical

Let’s agree this first. I am not talking about deep long term connection, nor am I talking about relationship compatibility or personality love. I am talking about the base desire to fuck. The in your core drive to throw someone against a wall and really do it like they do on the discovery channel.

Instant physical attraction is partly hard coded

To some degree that level of instant attraction is hard coded into us. It is from hundreds of years of survival not as an individual but as a race. It is the hard coded drive to procreate. This is where genetics kick in.

Strong genes are varied

The strongest genes are the most varied genes. If you have a good mix of different genes from your two parents, then you have the highest chance of being at the top of the evolutionary food chain. Your body when it grows picks the strongest from the two choices that it receives – so the further apart the two gene pools contributing the better. Have you ever noticed how mixed race babies are the most beautiful? I have never seen an ugly mixed race child, and that is due to the mixed gene pool.

Your body drives you to want to fuck foreigners for genetic strength

If you fuck a foreigner and there is a child produced, that child has a really great genetic mix in their background. They are most likely to develop in a healthy and strong manor, and survival is more likely assured. This means that you want to fuck someone different to yourself because it results in the strongest genetic child! You really do, and whilst you may have made other plans about the results of your night of passion (using a condom so you don’t have an unwanted arrival), your body does not know that, and so it is drive to seek the differences.

So that is the biological genetic reason that you find yourself attracted to people who look very different from yourself.

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