F Buddy - being sexy you https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/blog/tags/being-sexy-you en Why good girls are going to hell https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/blog/why-good-girls-are-going-hell <div class="view view-blog-date-tags view-id-blog_date_tags view-display-id-entity_view_1 view-dom-id-94effe0b606a7b022cfa7fa3864042e9"> <div class="view-content"> <div> 20 May 2018 - 19:43 | Tags: <a href="/blog/tags/being-sexy-you" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">being sexy you</a>, <a href="/blog/tags/british-sex-advice" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">British sex advice</a>, <a href="/blog/tags/hot-girls" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">hot girls</a> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field-images"><img typeof="foaf:Image" loading="lazy" src="https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/sites/f-buddy.co.uk/files/styles/blog-images/public/images/blog/sexy_devil.jpg?itok=Q7kwpegS" width="250" height="376" alt="" /></div><p>There is something about being naughty that we find intrinsically sexy. Haloween is a great example of this. The girls all come out dressed in satanic short dresses, with devil horns and that naughty look in their eyes. We love something about someone who is about to break all the rules in the bedroom, and we are turned on by the forbidden and the naughty. One of the all-time greatest sexy roles in all of television and film is that of Liz Hurley as the devil in Bedazzle. Admittedly this was to do with the fact that she was at her very peak of hotness, but the role was also a big part of it. As the devil she was smooth, sexy, and totally without boundaries. She was a girl that has already gone to hell, and come back, making her the sexiest woman on the silver screen. In this article I would like to talk about what a good girl is, and thus why they have “devil” like qualities.</p> <h3>What is a traditional good girl?</h3> <p>A good girl is someone who always obeys the rules. The study hard, they listen to their parents, they toe the line. If you actually met someone like this, they would be the most boring person in the world. We think that this is what we want, but really is not. This person is not going to have imagination, spunk or any instinct that has not already been repressed or removed.</p> <h3>What is an actual good girl?</h3> <p>This is someone who is true to themselves, someone who listens and follows what they know to be right and good. This is much harder to do that simply following the rules, as the two are often in conflict. This person listens to what they want, and follow it.</p> <h3>So how is a good girl bad?</h3> <p>We all want sex. It is hard coded into us, and a good girl that listens to herself is someone who embraces this. They want to have sex, and they want to have great sex. This is where real naughtiness comes from. It comes from being true to yourself, from really following what you want. From accepting who you are and following through on that.</p> <h3>Going to hell?</h3> <p>I think that the real way to create your own hell on earth is to deny who you are, to reject your instincts and basic needs. This is real hell because you are lying to yourself. So are good girls going to hell? In the traditional sense yes, but in reality, I think that the only way to live is to embrace who you are, whomever that really is.</p> Sun, 20 May 2018 18:43:51 +0000 EdBennett 5859 at https://www.f-buddy.co.uk https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/blog/why-good-girls-are-going-hell#comments Follow your passion, the sex and the rest will come https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/blog/follow-your-passion-sex-and-rest-will-come <div class="view view-blog-date-tags view-id-blog_date_tags view-display-id-entity_view_1 view-dom-id-bef0fb37cf24d5b32e71dfd99bc4e803"> <div class="view-content"> <div> 20 Jan 2018 - 08:55 | Tags: <a href="/blog/tags/being-sexy" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">being sexy</a>, <a href="/blog/tags/passionate-sex" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">passionate sex</a>, <a href="/blog/tags/being-sexy-you" typeof="skos:Concept" property="rdfs:label skos:prefLabel" datatype="">being sexy you</a> </div> </div> </div> <div class="field-images"><img typeof="foaf:Image" loading="lazy" src="https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/sites/f-buddy.co.uk/files/styles/blog-images/public/images/blog/passion.jpg?itok=PxTgOosl" width="250" height="167" alt="" /></div><p>We have been taught to lead neutered lives. Don’t run, don’t cross, no splashing, no bombing, obey the rules and everything will be alright. This may have been true once, but this is no longer the world that we live in. Automation is eliminating much of the mundane and ordinary work, which means that the only people who’s jobs or work is truly safe are the ones where passion is involved. Where rather than doing something ordinary, we will be doing something extraordinary. The best way to do this… follow your passions. Do the thing that you really want to do, that gets you rolling out of bed in the morning and wanting to start your day. Without this, you are in decline.</p> <p>How does this relate to sex? Well, the same is true for getting laid. We see someone on the train we like, but we are neutered. We already know that the rules say that we shouldn’t talk to them, so we don’t. We let another opportunity pass us by, because we have restricted our passion.</p> <p>In the “wild”, if you say, someone you liked, that you sexually were attracted to, you would have gone over and made it known, fearlessly and forwardly. What did you have to loose? Nothing. So what have you got to loose now? Nothing… yet the hesitation is still there. Why? You have been NEUTERED. You are restraining your passions because that is what you have been taught will keep you safe, make you respectable. Yet this is a fallacy, this is simply not true. This is the lie that you have been told.</p> <p>There is nothing more sexually attractive in this world than being wanted. There is nothing more primal, more instinctively fuck-able than a person who wants to fuck you so hard they can barely restrain themselves. They want to rip your clothes from your body and make you scream with pleasure. They want to own, ravish and conjoin themselves with you in the heat of passion so strong that neither of you are in control of what you are doing. THAT is sexy. THAT is passion.</p> <p>Yet we have forgotten this. Both men and women have had it bred out of them for reasons of control and civilisation. What is say is get back it touch with that. Follow your passion, and regardless of the outcome, you will know that you lived your life.</p> Sat, 20 Jan 2018 08:55:09 +0000 EdBennett 5845 at https://www.f-buddy.co.uk https://www.f-buddy.co.uk/blog/follow-your-passion-sex-and-rest-will-come#comments