The relationship between money and sex

EdBennett — Tue, 24 Sep 2019 18:24:57 +0000

24 Sep 2019 - 19:24 | Tags: sex and money, the power of kissing, being alpha

When is comes to sex, there has long been a strong relationship between money and sex. We all want to be having sex. Not all of the time, and the regularity with which we want to have sex certainly changes from point to point depending on what life stage we are at. That being said, on a fundamental level, everyone wants to be having some sex. This is why finding a fuck buddy is such a healthy thing to do. When you have sex with a fuck buddy, you are doing them as much of a favour as they are doing you the favour! You both benefit from the joy of sex! I am surprised that more people aren’t hooking up on a regular basis.

When it comes to money, we all want more money. If someone was asked if they wanted to be paid more or if they wanted a raise, I do not know a single person who would say no to that offer. We all have this feeling that more money is better, so we all would seek more money if that was an option.

So we all want more sex and we all want more money. Is there a connection between the two? I believe that the answer is yes. In this article, I will be explaining why the two desires are more closely linked than you might think.

Money is a sign of power and resources. If you have money, you are able to take long holidays, buy the things that you want, and alter the environment around you. You have the ability to change things, that is what money allows you to do. It brings greater choices. Money also removes the stress and worry of not having the basics, things like food and shelter. When we find a sexual partner, that person will often spend their money on you. The more money they have, the more they will be able to spend on you, the better your day to day life becomes.

Thus, if you have more money, there is an argument that you will get laid more easily. You can, without thinking, buy a potential fuck buddy a drink or grab a hotel room without worrying about it. You show that you can do this by wearing expensive clothes, having a costly watch or driving a flash car. All these chattels are just ways of showing people that you have money. Why do you care what other people think? You care because you care about having sex! The real driver behind wanting money is actually driven by the desire to have more sex. That is where it is coming from in reality.

So, if you find yourself trying to get more money when you are not having sex, take a good look at yourself. You probably are looking for ways of having sex, and the best way to do that is to find a fuck buddy! I am not saying your shouldn’t work hard and get more money, but I am saying you should also send a few messages out to some of our fuck buddy members, because when it all comes down to it, they are who you are really looking for.

Never forget the power of a good make out session

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 15:03:04 +0000

28 Feb 2018 - 15:03 | Tags: the power of kissing, correct foreplay, top tips for being sexy

When it comes to being sexy, there are so many things that we focus on other that the kiss. I would like to cover what those are then remind you why taking it back to basics and focusing on the kiss is great thing to do.

The looks

We care about how we look, and this comes in two forms. We watch what we wear, is it a nice suit, an expensive dress? Does the colour match my eyes, do I look amazing in this? The other thing is our body. For guys it's usually about if they are muscle-bound enough, for the girls they tend to think about if they are thin enough, or their “bum looks big in this”. Personally, I think a good bum is a good bum, regardless of its size!

The exciting things we “do”

To keep things interesting and exciting in the relationship, we often look to the external things that we are doing and forget the internal. So where can we go for dinner, what film can we see, is there a theatre show that we should go and watch, where shall we go on holiday. All these things are important, and super fun, but don’t forget the internal.

The actual penetrative sex

This is of course very important, but it is also not the main part of the sexiness. Think about it, if you went straight for penetration without any build up, without anything else taking place in the run up to this, do you think that this would really be fun? The build up is so important.

Why the kiss is so good

The kiss is so good because it is so full of promise. The first thing you ever did with your fuck buddy was kiss, the first moment your friend became a friend with benefits was when the kiss took place. Before that, you were just friends. It is such a key moment, that a kiss will always hold immense power, and sometimes we forget to use that power. So here are a few top tips that you can try out to really get your kiss on.

Come up behind them and kiss them on neck gently, with no warning.
Kiss them slow and deep – then look them in the eyes afterwards with out saying anything for 10 seconds, enjoying the moment.
Put a movie on you have seen before, then randomly ignore it to make out during it.
Reenact your first kiss. If you can do this, it will bring back a whole host of sexiness.

So remember the power of the kiss, and enjoy a good make out session.