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Top sex tips to be a better fuck buddy

EdBennett — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 20:32:54 +0000

22 Sep 2021 - 21:32 | Tags: top tips for being sexy, being better in bed, better sex guide

In the world of adult dating, one of the biggest thing we focus on is finding and keeping a fuck buddy. This makes a lot of sense. Sometimes finding someone to have a hook up with can take time and effort. This can often be the biggest barrier to a great sex life. Once you have a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits relationship set up and in place, it can be that the rest slots into place. You also have someone else who is helping you get there too! With that in mind we often spend a lot of time focusing on the external. How we look, what other people think of us, how to get to the close. We often neglect to spend time or effort thinking about ourselves and how we can be better fuck buddies. When I say this, I do not only mean a better fuck for the other person, I also mean a better fuck buddy for ourselves. Having a good time in bed is as import for us as for the person we are hooking up with, so a little time and effort working on ourselves can be a great thing. With that in mind, here are my top tips for how to be a better fuck buddy.

Learn about your body

Take some time to explore your own body. This applies whether you are a man or a woman. Understanding your own body and how it works is key to having great sex. Your fuck buddy can’t read your mind, so if you know your body, you can better guide them to the ultimate pleasure of you both.

Know your turn offs

If you know what turns you off, you can simply eliminate them from the sexual encounter. It is easy to get rid of them, knowing exactly what they are can take time though. Once you spot a turn-off, make a mental note and then be sure to mention it to your fuck buddy.

Exercise

Keep in great shape will lead to great sex. I would particularly recommend that you do kegel exercises which will help to grow and tone key internal muscles that are used during sex. A good set of kegels with some other body toning exercises every week will make all the difference!

So there are three top tips to being a better fuck buddy. Have fun!

Top three tips to improve your sex life this August

EdBennett — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 20:50:58 +0000

31 Aug 2021 - 21:50 | Tags: tips for casual sex, summer sex tips, top tips for being sexy

August is a great time to be having sex. The body’s natural hormones are in a good place, generally, work is a little slower this time of year which means you have less pressure on other fronts leaving you more time to focus on your personal life, and the global coronavirus pandemic is calming down. So, if you have had a dry few months, or you just want more sex, now is a great time to find a fuck buddy.

Once you have sorted your friends with benefits relationship, or you find yourself hooking up again, you might want to start thinking about how to make the most of that. Spending a little time and effort to improve your sex life this August is a great investment. With only a little time and effort, you can reap great rewards in the bedroom! To help get you started, here are my top tips on how to improve your sex life this August.

Relax before sex

Whilst it is true that generally speaking August is slower at work for many people, that is not true for everyone. Stress and tension are inhibitors in the bedroom, and you will both have a better time if you are relaxed. Stress is the sex killer! There are some great ways of doing this, some of which will also help you in your outside-of-the-bedroom life too!

Meditation and mindfulness exercises can help you better control your stress. Doing this regularly is, or course, ideal but if you find you do not have time to do this every day they before embarking on a seduction consider taking just 5 or 10 minutes of you time. Focus in on your breathing, allow the body to relax, listen to yourself. This simple 5 minutes can make the world of difference in the bedroom!

Do Kegel exercises

If you want to be a better runner you exercise your legs. If you want to be a better weight lifter you work your arms. Do you want to have better sex? Do kegel exercises. Taking just a few minutes a day to work out the kegel muscles, which engage during sex can improve performance for both men and women. For men it can help you control your orgasm, and when you do come, have stronger long orgasms. I once heard of a man who could propel his seamen across a room because he had really worked his kegel muscles! For women, working and controlling your kegel muscles will allow you to flip the script and go from being fucked to really fucking the guy back. It is amazing for both of you.

Plan your sex

A spontaneous late-night booty call is great, and one of the lovely things that come with the friends with benefits agreement. Planning your sex in advance can also be good. It means that you both know it is happening, if allows you to look forward to it during the day (sexting or talking dirty in the run-up), and it allows you to prepare. That could be cleaning your space, making sure you are well-rested and have the appropriate paraphernalia, and perhaps give you time to slot in some meditation beforehand. Setting yourself up for success is always a good choice.

So here are my top three tips to help you improve your sex life. Go forth and remember, the most important thing is to have fun!

Fuck Buddy Fears – what people are most scared of about sex in Britain

EdBennett — Sat, 22 May 2021 23:43:13 +0000

23 May 2021 - 00:43 | Tags: top tips for being sexy, fear and sex

When it comes to having sex with a fuck buddy, there are number of things that we can all get scared or nervous about. Sex is a hot topic and it is very normal to be nervous or scared about it, especially in these times where it may have been illegal for you to have sex with a new fuck buddy for some time now due to the coronavirus pandemic. Putting COVID-19 aside, there are still a lot of reasons that people get scared. Here are the top 10 things that people in Britain (Britons) harbour as their biggest sex fears.

Being found unattractive by their fuck buddy when naked

Everyone, even the most confident, is conscious when naked because we do it rarely. We spend most of our time clothes, so being undressed around someone and being nervous is natural. If you are feeling this, a good way to boost your confidence is to just exercise more. Hit the gym!

Your fuck buddy won’t orgasm

We attune our measurement of success in bed, often, on whether the other person had a good time The ultimate, did they orgasm? Ironically worrying about this makes it more likely to be a problem, so breath, relax, and know that sometimes it doesn’t happen and that is okay.

That you are bad at sex

You are not. How can I say this with confidence when I don’t know you? The best sex in the world is the sex that you are having right now, so if you are having sex with someone, no matter your experience, in that moment you are literally the best sex they have ever had. Trust that.

Your fuck buddy has an STI

This is a legitimate and sensible thing to consider, and this is a fear that is usefully keeping you safe. The fixes are easy. Use a condom until you both have a test. Then go wild knowing this is not an issue.

Pregnancy from a fuck buddy

This is a nightmare if it happens. See above for the condom conversation.

Too much body hair

We all have hair, it is natural. My advice, rather than worry about it, have a chat to your fuck buddy. If it is an issue for them you can always get out the razor.

Premature ejaculation

Kegel exercises, breathing, mindfulness… these are all things that can help prevent this from occurring, so if this is a worry do your prep.

You are out of practice

There is only one fix, so go get laid!

Sex is painful

If this is an issue for you, talk to your fuck buddy about it and ask them to be extra careful and gentle. Doing things slow can be a real turn on in of itself!

Top tips to have the best sex of your life during lock down

EdBennett — Wed, 01 Jul 2020 00:17:09 +0000

1 Jul 2020 - 01:17 | Tags: best sex, top tips for being sexy

Things have been in lock down now for coming up to 3 months, and things have been getting more and more difficult. The COVID-19 pandemic hit the UK and has disrupted all of our lives for the worse. Boris Johnson has tried to lead us the best he can, but ultimately it has resulted in shops being closed for a very long time, businesses suffering, the economy being hit, and a huge bill that will have to be paid to cover all the money spent on furlough. It is not a good time, and whilst the government are saying they are easing restrictions, it may well be that this is retracted subject to a second round of Covid-19. Even now, as things are calming, Leicester is not on lock down tighter than ever due to increased deaths. The Coronavirus rules our lives, whether we like it or not.

One of the few advantages of lock down is that it has created a large amount of extra time for a lot of people, time that previously people lacked. This has resulted in a lot of gardening, home improvements, and home exercise. The number of cycles sold has skyrocketed, and I have never seen so many enthusiastic joggers in my life! One of the things that this also provides space for is sex.

If you have a fuck buddy, then this is a great time to be having a lot of sex. With time off, or perhaps working from home, the opportunity to get down and dirty several times a day is now very much on the table. With all that time, now is the perfect time to be trying new things to improve your sex life. With that in mind, here are two top tips to help you do exactly that!

Get some sex toys

With the postal system still working, you may not be able to go to the shops, but you can order things and have them delivered to your door. Getting some sex toys in to surprise your partner is a great way to improve the sex. You may even learn new things about your partner!

Allow your fantasies to develop

With time to spare, having a little daydream about people you would like to have sex with is a great way to get you in the mood. You can then capitalise in on that by taking all that energy and seducing your fuck buddy. They don’t have to know that you have been thinking about someone else, they will love being the focus of all that fantasy-driven energy!

So use this time wisely whilst it is here. Time only moves forward, and sex now is the best sex, because you are having it, now, so do it!

Top three tips to upskill your sex life!

EdBennett — Tue, 07 May 2019 16:58:04 +0000

7 May 2019 - 17:58 | Tags: better sex guide, how to get more sex, top tips for being sexy

Adult dating has become very normal in the modern western world, and what a relief it is that this has happened. Sex is something that makes everyone healthier and happier. It is good for the brain as it stimulates blood flow, it is good for the body as it is a legitimate calorie burning exercise, it is good for the soul as it releases happy hormones into the body that raise a sense of well being and, well, happiness! Sex is excellent, and we should all be having more of it.

Once you have a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits, you might be thinking about wanting to improve your sex life. This is a good thing! Upskilling your sex is a great way to make the experience better for both of you. Better sex means more of the good stuff listed above. Better sex also leads to more sex! If you both have a good time, you will find that your fuck buddy comes running back for more frequently. So how can you upskill you sex life? Here are my three top tips!

Look after your little man

Most people pay attention to how they look. They wash their clothes, they keep their hair looking nice and trimmed, they pay attention to how they smell… the one thing that many en neglect is how they are doing down under. This is such an easy thing to address and will upskill you in the bedroom. Think about getting a trimmer and trimming some of the hair around your ball sack and scrotum. Keep the whole area super clean… a clean penis is one that a woman is more likely to want to put inside her. Consider moisturising, there are huge benefits from having a soft cock, your fuck buddy will love it. In the event that something happens, go to a doctor immediately and get it checked out. It is worth getting over the temporary embarrassment in return for long term sexual performance.

Play games: no hands

Playing games in the bedroom is a great way to upskill! Things that are fun but teasing are perfect. Try having sex with your fuck buddy but you are not allowed to use your hands. This is such a good one. Another variation is to go down on her, but the second she uses her hands to do anything you stop!

Practice makes perfect

Have more sex. They say practice makes perfect, and it really does! The more sex you have, the better you can become… IF you reflect afterwards. Each time, think about something that you want to focus on doing during that sex session. This could be spend longer going down on your friends with benefits, or it could be to make sure your fuck buddy is completely relaxed before getting to it. Reflection then practice is the key.

So good luck, and have fun!

Sex tips for men sleeping with a woman

EdBennett — Fri, 26 Apr 2019 08:03:09 +0000

26 Apr 2019 - 09:03 | Tags: sex tips, top tips for being sexy, what women want

Welcome to the f-buddy website, the place where we help like-minded individuals find each other so that they can no strings attached relationships. This is called finding a fuck buddy. Here at fuck buddy, we believe that having sex is a human right and that everyone ought to be having more of it! If you are one of these people, you should log on and send a few messages. Once you have your fuck buddy, you may want some tips on how to have better sex. Well I am here to help! In this article I am going to give you my top tips for how to have better sex with a woman if you are a man. You will remember reading this sentence and thinking that was the moment that your sex life changes, this is the moment when you got the information you needed to take your sex life to the next level. So without further ado, here are my top sex tips for men.0

Lead

In the early days leading is a really great thing to do. It means you are making decisions and dealing with all the choices. This leaves her the option of just relaxing and enjoying yourself. This is a great early strategy.

Let her lead

Once you have slept together a bit, letting her lead can lead to much better sex, of she is up for it! She now knows that you can lead, she understands that, so now when you let her lead it is not because you are incapable of it, it is simply a choice! If she leads you get to lie back and enjoy yourself. She can also often make little adjustments to the position and actions which can really improve things for both of you! I would highly recommend you give this a go… but I would also suggest that this is generally ideal for when you have been sleeping with a fuck buddy for a little while already. I would not push her into leading unless she was clearly wanting to.

Use lube!

A little lube was always welcomed and rarely can this backfire. Some lubricant makes things smoother for both of you. There is a myth that if the woman is not wet then she is not into it. In fact there are many reasons that this might happen: stress, fatigue, time of the month. So pop a little lube into the mix. It can not hurt, but it can help your sex in a big way!

Never forget the power of a good make out session

EdBennett — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 15:03:04 +0000

28 Feb 2018 - 15:03 | Tags: the power of kissing, correct foreplay, top tips for being sexy

When it comes to being sexy, there are so many things that we focus on other that the kiss. I would like to cover what those are then remind you why taking it back to basics and focusing on the kiss is great thing to do.

The looks

We care about how we look, and this comes in two forms. We watch what we wear, is it a nice suit, an expensive dress? Does the colour match my eyes, do I look amazing in this? The other thing is our body. For guys it's usually about if they are muscle-bound enough, for the girls they tend to think about if they are thin enough, or their “bum looks big in this”. Personally, I think a good bum is a good bum, regardless of its size!

The exciting things we “do”

To keep things interesting and exciting in the relationship, we often look to the external things that we are doing and forget the internal. So where can we go for dinner, what film can we see, is there a theatre show that we should go and watch, where shall we go on holiday. All these things are important, and super fun, but don’t forget the internal.

The actual penetrative sex

This is of course very important, but it is also not the main part of the sexiness. Think about it, if you went straight for penetration without any build up, without anything else taking place in the run up to this, do you think that this would really be fun? The build up is so important.

Why the kiss is so good

The kiss is so good because it is so full of promise. The first thing you ever did with your fuck buddy was kiss, the first moment your friend became a friend with benefits was when the kiss took place. Before that, you were just friends. It is such a key moment, that a kiss will always hold immense power, and sometimes we forget to use that power. So here are a few top tips that you can try out to really get your kiss on.

Come up behind them and kiss them on neck gently, with no warning.
Kiss them slow and deep – then look them in the eyes afterwards with out saying anything for 10 seconds, enjoying the moment.
Put a movie on you have seen before, then randomly ignore it to make out during it.
Reenact your first kiss. If you can do this, it will bring back a whole host of sexiness.

So remember the power of the kiss, and enjoy a good make out session.