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COVID-19 is the perfect time to have a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 07:19:33 +0000

24 Oct 2020 - 08:19 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, can I have a fuck buddy

This morning, we all woke up to another day with the COVID-19 restrictions in place. What were supposed to be temporary measures put in place for a short period of time to stem the spread of the coronavirus has become a global pandemic that the entire world is struggling to shake off. There are restrictions on who you can see, where you can go, and who can be under the same roof as you at the same time depending on what they are doing and what you are doing. The rules change constantly and are really rather confusing. There are some things which are hard and fast rules which would mean a potential fine if you break them. There are guidelines where are simply “suggestions” on what you should do and how you should act. There are then the many rules that no one is sure is a guideline or a rule! The one thing that we can be sure of, is that the time of COVID-19 is a great time to have a fuck buddy.

The isolation that is being caused by the reduced interaction as a result of the new coronavirus is being felt across the country. Whether you are in England, Scotland, Wales or even Ireland you cannot escape some level of restriction on your freedom to do the things that you used to do without even thinking about it. As we get used to this new “normal” one of the things that is helping a lot of people to get through it happily is having a fuck buddy.

If you are one of the people that already have your “bubble” fixed in place, it doesn’t leave much room to be dating a lot of seeing a lot of the opposite sex without breaking that. Having an exclusive fuck buddy can help with this. Having someone that you can booty call on a no strings attached relationship basis is something which can really help with the feelings of loneliness and isolation. If you and your fuck buddy are careful and mindful of the restrictions, it can be done without breaking any of the rules of the area you are in.

Sex is one of the great happiness boosters in life. If doesn’t require money, talent, not any training. It is something that is available to everyone even in these difficult times! So you don’t have a fuck buddy and feel that you would enjoy the companionship and contract that having a friend with benefits would bring you, I highly recommended jumping online and finding one.

How to find a fuck buddy during the Coronavirus lock down

EdBennett — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 17:19:43 +0000

31 Mar 2020 - 18:19 | Tags: finding sex, can I have a fuck buddy

The United Kingdom is now in lockdown which means you can no longer just go out and do whatever you want whenever you want. Boris Johnson has put very clear and certain rules in place. As of now, thanks to COVID-19, you are only allowed to go out in order to:

Shop for basics like food
Medicinal reasons, such as going to the pharmacist or making a visit to a doctor
One form of exercise a day
Travelling to work but ONLY if you cannot work from home

This is an extremely restricted list of things that you can go out for, and to help enforce it most of the places that you might have wanted to go in an evening have been shut down. The pubs, bars, clubs, cinemas are all closed. I feel a little like we are living in the song Ghost Town by the Specials. So, if you can’t go out in the evenings, what is there left to do? One word: Sex.

In theory, this is the perfect time to grab your fuck buddy and have a lot of sex. Socially distancing yourself from the rest of society leaves you and a partner a lot of time to have a lot of sex. For anyone who hasn’t done it, the 30-day sex challenge would be a great thing to have a go at doing over the next 4.3 weeks. So if you already have a fuck buddy, you are good to go. What about if you don’t have a fuck buddy? The places where you might usually hook up with someone, the clubs, pubs, bars, they are all shut. Well here are my tops tips on how to find a fuck buddy during the coronavirus lockdown.

Use online dating

Using an online dating website to find a fuck buddy is the perfect way to get one right now. Everything is being pushed online. A lot of yoga classes and exercise leaders are now running their classes online, people are meeting in video chat rooms with a beer in hand to hang out in virtual “pubs” in the evenings, I have even seen an entertainer run a kids birthday party remotely with each kid dialling into a video chat room and the entertainer delivering from their computer screen. This means that people are spending more time than ever in front of their laptops and computers, which means that online communication is the way to chat them up! Using a fuck buddy website, like this one, is even more targeted as you know that everyone is looking for the same thing. Now is the perfect time to jump online and meet someone new.

Can I have a fuck buddy if married?

EdBennett — Mon, 25 Mar 2019 14:14:03 +0000

25 Mar 2019 - 14:14 | Tags: marriage and sex, can I have a fuck buddy

There are many schools of thought that suggest monogamy is not our natural state. Here in the developed world, we believe that a traditional family unit is made up of two monogamous partners that have sex with each other but no one else, then any children are raised within that family unit. There are other cultures where any children belong solely to the mother, whom the father is makes no difference nor is it tracked. The children are then raised by the tribe, the group as a whole. The men sleep with multiple different partners in the group and the women have power and autonomy separate of any male counterpart. I make no judgement as to whether this is a good or a bad thing, but it does make you wonder if the way that we are doing things is the best way? This was something I remembered and started thinking about again in more detail when I was messaged and asked the question: “I am married and want a fuck buddy. Is that possible? Can I be married and still have a fuck buddy?” According to that culture, where marriage doesn’t even exist, you can, so the answer would be yes. Here marriage is something that is very real, and includes a commitment to remain monogamous. So can you still have a fuck buddy? Well the answer is yes you can, but you have to be careful about how you do it.

The best way to have a fuck buddy when married, is to be honest with your partner and get them on board with the choice. Honesty is one of the foundations to any good relationship, and with something this big being dishonest can break the relationship. It is worth asking yourself the question “Do I still want to be in this marriage?” If the answer is no, then you can go ahead and get a fuck buddy and any resulting split may benefit you in the long term anyway. If you do want to stay in the marriage, consider talking to your partner about this.

When you approach this, a good way to talk about it is to start by deconstructing the foundations that support the belief that one can not have a fuck buddy when married. Talk about openness, think about all the reasons that doing this will benefit the relationship between the two of you. If you are happier, then you bring that extra happiness to the marriage. That will then spill over into how good the marriage itself is.

For the right couple, having a fuck buddy in the mix can be a beneficial thing to a relationship. If it is something you are considering, then weigh it up carefully in your own mind first, then talk to your partner about it. You may be surprised to find that they are more open to it that you might otherwise think.