F Buddy - Coronavirus and sex

Freedom day, the start of a huge spike in opportunity

EdBennett — Sat, 24 Jul 2021 22:35:33 +0000

24 Jul 2021 - 23:35 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex

If you are on this website and reading this article, you are likely someone who has a fuck buddy, has had one in the past and would like a new one, or are new to the adult dating world of no-strings-attached relationships but would like to try it. Whatever your reason for being here, you have also likely had a rather dry year compared to other years. The COVID-19 lockdown has mean t areal dearth of opportunity. The find and meeting of new potential fuck buddies is, in fact, the hardest part. The rest of it tends to take care of itself. Sex is so much a part of who we are and what our bodies need, that our bodies know what to do and how to do it! They will drive the rest… you just have to meet someone first. The coronavirus put the brakes on this in a major way. The usual places that one might meet someone in person closed down, pubs were not visited on a Friday night, clubs were not open to take people in at 1am, it was a difficult time for those looking to hook up. Even the work environment, somewhere that could almost certainly assure a workplace romance however fleeting, ceased to be somewhere you could meet someone as everyone moved to zoom, teams, and other forms of online communications. It has been a tough year. That is all about to change.

Freedom Day arrived just as the last seconds of Sunday 18th July slipped away with no one to mourn their passing. As of Monday 19th July, here in England, all restrictions were lifted. No more mask wearing, no more social distancing, no restrictions on going into work or other places. The social gathering places boomed! Clubs opened on Sunday night, bars packed out, restaurants reopened. A feeling of positivity about the future swelled, and this has created the opportunity to hook up again in a way that did not exist before. I am not talking about Freedom Day itself, I am talking about the coming weeks.

It is true that the 18/19 July night out was a big one, but actually I think the coming weeks are the more important ones. Yes, a lot of people went out to hook up that night, but more people will be doing so in the coming summer month. Sunday night is not the best night to be going out, and a lot of people were still nervous or looking for something extra to give the confidence to go out. A lot of them will have been single for a while, so everyone is looking to get laid.

So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, now is a really good time to be putting yourself out there. Enjoy the low hanging fruit.

Making the most of sex during extended lock down

EdBennett — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 23:25:23 +0000

25 Jun 2021 - 00:25 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, better sex guide

Here in the UK we were all looking forward to the major lifting of restrictions. Soon we would all be able to once more go where we want, do what we want, have sex with who we want to without the strict regulations that were put in place due to the spread of the coronavirus pandemic. However, sadly for all of us, Boris Johnson extended the current rules and we are all not getting out of lockdown yet. It will happen, but we are all going to have to make the best of what we have. So with that in mind, if you already have a fuck buddy, how can you make the best of the sex that you are having right now, despite the restrictions that have been in place? Well here are my top tips to making the most of having sex with your fuck buddy in lock down.

Get yourself mentally in the right head space

Lock down and reduce contact with people for the last year has left us all in a different space. People are more depressed generally, more deflated, less motivated. So I urge you to get yourself in the right headspace where you are upbeat and want to have sex. Maybe that means putting on some music and dancing around, maybe that means watching a hot film or reading a steamy book, or maybe that means playing with yourself first. What ever you need to do, do it!

Build up with non-penetrative action

The nice thing about having a fuck buddy is that you both know where you are going with it. You are both going to have sex, you both want to have sex… and this can mean that you get to it too quickly. The sex is always going to be better with a build up, so make a decision to have some non-penetrative fun first. Kiss, stroke, fondle… what ever you want to do, go ahead and do it. When you get to the sex, it will be better for it.

Go for the grind, not just in and out

Yes having sex is a lot of in and out, but once you are in, consider grinding more. It is a simple thing, but more grinding is more stimulation for the woman. It is also great for the man, extends the sex and means the end is more explosive.

I hope these tips help you make the most of your time whilst things are still opening up.

The effect of lockdown on sexual desire

EdBennett — Wed, 07 Apr 2021 22:07:57 +0000

7 Apr 2021 - 23:07 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, sex and Coronavirus

Lockdown in the UK has brought with is a host of changes. The high streets are quiet, the restaurants are empty, the pubs are like ghost towns. Boris Johnson has recently announced an easing of the lockdown across the whole of the UK. England and Wales will start to open up and Scotland and Ireland will likely follow. The vaccination program in England in particular has been very successful, and we have a lot of the population vaccinated. When things open up things should get better. Till then, things are still mostly closed and our lives are far from being normal. Socialising is at an all-time low. The question for today’s article is: how has this affected our sex lives?

Many people think that lockdown has seen an increase in the amount of sex that people have been having in the last year. There is a logic to this. With nothing else to do but have sex, it makes sense that people are having more of it. With a lot of people also working from home, opportunities to have sex during the day also open up. Those with a fuck buddy have access to sex on tap all the time to have it. More friends-with-benefits relationships have blossomed in the recent year that in previous ones. Turning to a friend for some comfort in this time is natural, and good for you. Sex releases happy hormones that improve mental health and well being, it really is good for everyone! But what do the scientists think?

The Science

Studies have been done over the last year into how much people are having sex and sexual desire. A study conducted and posted by the Journal of Sex Research looked into sexual desire during COVID-19 and the effect it had on 500+ British people ages 18-32 years old. The study came out with some surprising results. It seems that whilst sexual desire from men remained consistent, sexual desire in women actually reduced rather than increased. There seemed to be a strong connection as well between those in serious relationships vs adult or casual relationships. Those in steady relationships displayed an increase in sexual activity, whilst those in casual relationships saw a significant drop in sexual activity. This does seem somewhat against accepted logic. However, the study did not distinguish between those in casual relationships who had an existing fuck buddy, or friends with benefits, against those without, and I think that this may also have played a factor.

So with the easing of lockdown, it does seem like access to sex and sexual activity is going to be on the increase, to the benefit of all. Bring on the coming months!

Covid-19: turbo charging the fuck buddy relationship

EdBennett — Sun, 28 Mar 2021 23:01:25 +0000

29 Mar 2021 - 00:01 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex

When we first meet someone we fancy, things have a certain pace. You see the person, you like them, you engineer a reason to go and talk to them, you get a number. From there you do some texting meet up another time or two, and then boom you are having sex. That is a very usual and acceptable speed.

Things usually go a little faster in the adult dating world. When you are looking for a fuck buddy, a hook up, or just a friends with benefits, things tend to move at a much faster speed. On a night out that would mean seeing someone you fancy, engineering a reason to go and meet them, and if things go well, then you are likely to find yourself having sex that same night.

Covid-19 has turbocharged the entire process, and now everything happens much quicker. What used to be a mini courtship in one night no longer even takes that one night. With an inability to go out easily and meet people, things have turned online. People meet each other digitally, they maybe text a bit or do a video call… and that is all that is needed before the next stage of having sex. What used to take an entire night out can now be done counting time in just a couple of hours. Things are moving at a lightning speed and people are hooking up with a fuck buddy faster than ever before. Why is this happening you may ask?

I think this comes down to necessity. The basic drive to have sex remains stronger than ever. The pandemic has not reduced it, if anything it has increased it! There is plenty of science that proves that in times of danger and perceived death, our sexual desire is increased. We are more likely to find someone sexually attractive if we are in danger than if we are not. The theory is that it is our survival instinct, if we think we are going to die we want to pass on our genes before we cork it! So people want to have sex more than ever before.

The pandemic means that meeting people face to face and going through that ritual is just no longer possible, which means that instead they do it online and they do it quickly. There is no point in waiting about, if you like someone, you just go for it and jump into bed with them. This has been excellent for so many people, but had you asked me a year ago I would never have predicted it.

So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, now is an outstanding time to get one!

The Fuck Buddy Winners and Losers of COVID-19

EdBennett — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 08:23:24 +0000

18 Mar 2021 - 08:23 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, sex and Coronavirus

The coronavirus pandemic has brought huge disruption to the day to day lives of people not just in this country, but the global population as a whole. Jobs have been lost, companies have been shut down, and certain industries have been decimated. On the social front, lockdown to the various strictness and degrees that it has been rolled out has separated friends and families, stopped people seeing loved ones and interacting with friends, and it has prevented people from meeting new people and partners. In so many ways, lockdown and the whole pandemic has sucked.

For those in the adult dating world, the change has been felt just as much as anywhere else. The ability to easily meet new people has been curtailed, the usually meeting places have been shut down, and the rules have been rewritten. Using a condom is no longer enough protection when shielding against in a curable STD is now secondary to shielding against a deadly virus that can kill you and can be transmitted not just in a kiss, but by breathing the same air as someone else. There have been clear winners and losers for those with fuck buddies or in the dating world, and we can broadly break those down into discrete groups of people.

Those with existing fuck buddies they liked before any kind of lockdown occurred.

These people were the clear winners. Lock down saw a lot of people work from home which freed up more time and energy with which to have sex. This meant that those with pre-existing fuck buddies or hook ups in place could take advantage of that and have a lot more sex, and at different times in the day to usual as well. They did very well on the sex front.

Those without a fuck buddy they liked before the pandemic occurred.

The barriers to entry shot up and it became significantly harder to meet people once the pandemic had started. Those who were caught in the unfortunate window of not having a fuck buddy generally did worse. They had to work a lot harder to find one, and there was almost certainly an extended gap between seeking and finding due to the increased difficulty.

Those who had a “friend” that they could convert.

A ‘friends with benefits’ relationship is one of the best around, especially if the person really was a friend beforehand. The lockdown has meant that converting a lose friendship or acquaintance into a friend with benefits has been much easier than in normal times. Suddenly it is a very real and good solution for both parties. So these people have done well, but they are a much smaller group than the two above.

So those broadly have been the winners and loser so the coronavirus pandemic. Ultimately, everyone can make it happen if they want. So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, why not jump online and send someone a message now?

Sex games to play with a fuck buddy during the coronavirus lock down

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 09:02:04 +0000

29 Jan 2021 - 09:02 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus Sex

The coronavirus lockdown continues and with it more time spent unable to leave the house to do anything meaningful. Some of us work from home, some of us are on furlough, some of us are simply no longer in a job. We spend a lot of time in our four walls.

The purchasing of board games during COVID-19 has spiked as people look or ways to entertain themselves whilst in the house. Why should this be any different for you and your fuck buddy? There are a ton of games that can be played between the two of you without breaking any lock down rules. So instead of feeling bored, pick one of these coronavirus lock down games, grab your fuck buddy and be prepared to have fun!

Strip Twister

We all know and love the game twister… here is twister, with a twist! Every time one of you falls over you have to remove one of your clothing items. It is a great way to slowly build up to being naked, and you may well even find some new sex positions in the process!

What’s in the hat?

You will need a hat for this, and some paper. Write down easy to execute desires on slips of paper then put them in the hat. This can be as simple as kiss me passionately, to more racy requests. Then take it in turns to pick them out and action them for your fuck buddy. The extra fun part? You may end up introducing your fuck buddy to your favourite things as you end up doing for them what you wanted done for yourself!

Lottery role play!

Put a bunch of sexy costumes in a box, fireman’s hat, police hat and cuffs etc. Pick one out at random then play out a scenario involving it. Done!

Time Bomb

You will need an egg timer, clock, or you can use the countdown clock from your phone to make this work. Pick a time between you, 20 mins for example is an easy starting point. During that time you are to kiss and tease each other. Foreplay is the name of the game. However, during that time neither you nor your fuck buddy are allowed to come near penetration, even if you both want it. As soon as that timer goes off, you can get to it. This is a great game that really focuses you both on each other’s bodies and building up the pleasure. You can play it more than once, increasing the timer each time to make it harder in all senses of the word!

How to have more sex – make an effort

EdBennett — Sun, 22 Nov 2020 09:08:41 +0000

22 Nov 2020 - 09:08 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, how to get more sex

Welcome to the fuck buddy website, the place where we help you find like-minded individuals to have no strings attached fun with. Today I want to talk about how to have more sex. The most obvious way is to just put yourself out there more. Sex, romance, relationships… to a degree there are a numbers game. The more people that you meet the more likely you are to meet someone that you vibe with. This is true whether you are looking for a hookup, a friends with benefits or a long term relationship. We don’t always know why we fancy someone, only that we do, so the more people we meet the more likely that we will meet someone that we want to have sex with that also wants to have sex with us back. When that happens it is a win-win on both sides!

I stumbled across this article on the guardian website which asked the question would like be better if I made more effort? The article goes into quite a discussion, but the simple answer is yes! I am not talking about the impossible here, not that you need to be born into a different body entirely or to go and have plastic surgery in order to significantly change how you look… but the reality is that most people’s lives would be better if they made more effort. For most people they don’t because they set the bar too high. They incorrectly think that making more effort involves going to the gym 5 times a week, giving up all the things that they like to eat and becoming a vegan. This is simply not true. There are some simple and non-life-changing steps that everyone can make to make their lives better, and it does not involve a major life upheaval.

Move

You do not need to ‘exercise’ that is a word that is filled with the feeling of hard work and difficulty. Instead, just move every day. You don’t have to do much, just get your 10,000 steps in a day and you are done.

Buy less junk food

Trying to eat less junk is hard. Not buying it in the first place is much easier and once it is not in the house you then can’t eat it! Simple!

Dress nice even when on video calls

How you look does change how people treat you. Making sure that your top half is looking good will make people treat you in a nicer way… and the best part? You can be sitting in shorts or even just your boxers on the bottom half and no one will ever know!

All of this will help you as the world treats you that little bit more nicely and this translates directly to having sex. So if you want to get laid a little more, consider just taking these three easy steps to have more sex.

Coronavirus and Sex: how to install your fuck buddy into your household

EdBennett — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 18:08:06 +0000

25 Oct 2020 - 18:08 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, can you have a long term fuck buddy

We are being told that we can’t mix outside our households, that it is really important that we continue to socially distance and not have contact with other people. Living your life two meters from the rest of humanity is a harder thing to do that you might think! We are naturally social creatures, and even the most introverted of people need human contact from time to time. The huge change in lifestyle that has been caused for so many people has affected their health and well being more than most want to admit. This is true for people’s sex lives.

Maintaining your fuck buddy during Covid can be tough

Trying to hook up with a fuck buddy or meet up with your friends-with-benefits whilst sticking to the COVID-19 rules is becoming harder every day. The stricter the rules, the harder it is to stick to them. Having regular sex is important not just for our bodies but also our minds. It gives us a sense of self worth and during sex a large number of “happy hormones” are released which directly change our body chemistry to make us happier. Sex is important, and reducing your ability to booty call your fuck buddy can be something which can have a huge impact on your life and sense of well being.

Ways around the restrictions for your fuck buddy

There are lots of ways around this. You can ensure that you have them inside your bubble, you can ensure that you keep track of who is meeting up with who, or that you plan when you and your fuck buddy are going to meet in advance and take the week before to not see anyone else and monitor for symptoms. You can do all these things, but one of the best things that I have heard about is installing your fuck buddy into your household.

Sex on tap – install your fuck buddy into your household

One friend has “installed” their fuck buddy into their house. They said they had to really sell it to their fuck buddy at first but that it has worked out great for both of them. Now that they are under one roof there are no issues with them having sex. They are in the same “household” so there are no issues there, and the best part? You get to have sex on tap. Seriously! They both now work from home, and suddenly sex is no longer just in the evenings when one calls the other. It is all the time! Quick break between meetings? Have sex. Oh is that lunchtime? Have sex. Oh look I have to work late tonight, which would usually mean sex is not happening, instead just before they start their evening work session… have sex! It is great!

The one thing you must do

If you do this there is one thing that you must do if you are going to make it work. Have a conversation and re-establish the rules of the fuck buddy relationship before the move. It is easy for this to start to change for one party but not the other and that would lead to disaster! As long as you talk about it first, it is unlikely to happen.

If you do this, you are a god!

COVID-19 is the perfect time to have a fuck buddy

EdBennett — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 07:19:33 +0000

24 Oct 2020 - 08:19 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, can I have a fuck buddy

This morning, we all woke up to another day with the COVID-19 restrictions in place. What were supposed to be temporary measures put in place for a short period of time to stem the spread of the coronavirus has become a global pandemic that the entire world is struggling to shake off. There are restrictions on who you can see, where you can go, and who can be under the same roof as you at the same time depending on what they are doing and what you are doing. The rules change constantly and are really rather confusing. There are some things which are hard and fast rules which would mean a potential fine if you break them. There are guidelines where are simply “suggestions” on what you should do and how you should act. There are then the many rules that no one is sure is a guideline or a rule! The one thing that we can be sure of, is that the time of COVID-19 is a great time to have a fuck buddy.

The isolation that is being caused by the reduced interaction as a result of the new coronavirus is being felt across the country. Whether you are in England, Scotland, Wales or even Ireland you cannot escape some level of restriction on your freedom to do the things that you used to do without even thinking about it. As we get used to this new “normal” one of the things that is helping a lot of people to get through it happily is having a fuck buddy.

If you are one of the people that already have your “bubble” fixed in place, it doesn’t leave much room to be dating a lot of seeing a lot of the opposite sex without breaking that. Having an exclusive fuck buddy can help with this. Having someone that you can booty call on a no strings attached relationship basis is something which can really help with the feelings of loneliness and isolation. If you and your fuck buddy are careful and mindful of the restrictions, it can be done without breaking any of the rules of the area you are in.

Sex is one of the great happiness boosters in life. If doesn’t require money, talent, not any training. It is something that is available to everyone even in these difficult times! So you don’t have a fuck buddy and feel that you would enjoy the companionship and contract that having a friend with benefits would bring you, I highly recommended jumping online and finding one.

Having a fuck buddy during the Coronavirus is amazing

EdBennett — Sat, 30 May 2020 16:05:30 +0000

30 May 2020 - 17:05 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, COVID-19 sex

Sex is amazing. It is one of the fundamental pleasures of this life in this world. The interesting thing is that despite its place as one of the greatest things ever to exist, it is also one of the pleasures that every person, man or woman, has access to no matter their station. You don’t need to have a job to have sex, it doesn’t cost any money to have sex (though admittedly a certain amount of money can help the courtship process), you don’t need to have power or status. Sex is something that everyone can access, and your position in society has no reflection on your ability to enjoy sex. Whether you are a king or a street sweeper, both can experience sex to similar heights of ecstasy, though the king may do so in a more comfortable setting!

We are living in strange times. The coronavirus pandemic has swept across the world and it has changed what people can and cannot do day-to-day. So many of the activities that used to bring the bulk of your joy have been denied to you. No longer can you easily meet friends for a drink, go to the cinema, bowling, dancing. If you were someone who once attended clubs or classes, they may be held online but it is a poor substitution to the social gathering it was before. It may well be that you have not seen close friends or family members that are dear to you for a very long time now. You may even find yourself counting time by months now instead of days or weeks as you once did. For so many during the COVID-19 outbreak, it may be that you are just killing time.

There are many things that can really help your life right now. One of those things Is a fuck buddy. With the world in shut down, it appears that one of the greatest joys in life is still available to you. If you have a fuck buddy, you still have access to sex on tap. It doesn’t matter if you have a job or not, whether you are furloughed or fired. If you have a fuck buddy, this time could be fucking amazing! So many days and nights where there is nothing to do *but* have sex. Since all other things have been stripped away, you have more time and energy to think about your sex sessions. People are becoming more creative in the bedroom, they are thinking about things and making plans to ensure that their sessions get better and better.

The coronavirus outbreak is one of the best times to have a fuck buddy. I hope that you are one of the lucky few.