F Buddy - COVID-19 sex

Freedom day, the start of a huge spike in opportunity

EdBennett — Sat, 24 Jul 2021 22:35:33 +0000

24 Jul 2021 - 23:35 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex

If you are on this website and reading this article, you are likely someone who has a fuck buddy, has had one in the past and would like a new one, or are new to the adult dating world of no-strings-attached relationships but would like to try it. Whatever your reason for being here, you have also likely had a rather dry year compared to other years. The COVID-19 lockdown has mean t areal dearth of opportunity. The find and meeting of new potential fuck buddies is, in fact, the hardest part. The rest of it tends to take care of itself. Sex is so much a part of who we are and what our bodies need, that our bodies know what to do and how to do it! They will drive the rest… you just have to meet someone first. The coronavirus put the brakes on this in a major way. The usual places that one might meet someone in person closed down, pubs were not visited on a Friday night, clubs were not open to take people in at 1am, it was a difficult time for those looking to hook up. Even the work environment, somewhere that could almost certainly assure a workplace romance however fleeting, ceased to be somewhere you could meet someone as everyone moved to zoom, teams, and other forms of online communications. It has been a tough year. That is all about to change.

Freedom Day arrived just as the last seconds of Sunday 18th July slipped away with no one to mourn their passing. As of Monday 19th July, here in England, all restrictions were lifted. No more mask wearing, no more social distancing, no restrictions on going into work or other places. The social gathering places boomed! Clubs opened on Sunday night, bars packed out, restaurants reopened. A feeling of positivity about the future swelled, and this has created the opportunity to hook up again in a way that did not exist before. I am not talking about Freedom Day itself, I am talking about the coming weeks.

It is true that the 18/19 July night out was a big one, but actually I think the coming weeks are the more important ones. Yes, a lot of people went out to hook up that night, but more people will be doing so in the coming summer month. Sunday night is not the best night to be going out, and a lot of people were still nervous or looking for something extra to give the confidence to go out. A lot of them will have been single for a while, so everyone is looking to get laid.

So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, now is a really good time to be putting yourself out there. Enjoy the low hanging fruit.

Making the most of sex during extended lock down

EdBennett — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 23:25:23 +0000

25 Jun 2021 - 00:25 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, better sex guide

Here in the UK we were all looking forward to the major lifting of restrictions. Soon we would all be able to once more go where we want, do what we want, have sex with who we want to without the strict regulations that were put in place due to the spread of the coronavirus pandemic. However, sadly for all of us, Boris Johnson extended the current rules and we are all not getting out of lockdown yet. It will happen, but we are all going to have to make the best of what we have. So with that in mind, if you already have a fuck buddy, how can you make the best of the sex that you are having right now, despite the restrictions that have been in place? Well here are my top tips to making the most of having sex with your fuck buddy in lock down.

Get yourself mentally in the right head space

Lock down and reduce contact with people for the last year has left us all in a different space. People are more depressed generally, more deflated, less motivated. So I urge you to get yourself in the right headspace where you are upbeat and want to have sex. Maybe that means putting on some music and dancing around, maybe that means watching a hot film or reading a steamy book, or maybe that means playing with yourself first. What ever you need to do, do it!

Build up with non-penetrative action

The nice thing about having a fuck buddy is that you both know where you are going with it. You are both going to have sex, you both want to have sex… and this can mean that you get to it too quickly. The sex is always going to be better with a build up, so make a decision to have some non-penetrative fun first. Kiss, stroke, fondle… what ever you want to do, go ahead and do it. When you get to the sex, it will be better for it.

Go for the grind, not just in and out

Yes having sex is a lot of in and out, but once you are in, consider grinding more. It is a simple thing, but more grinding is more stimulation for the woman. It is also great for the man, extends the sex and means the end is more explosive.

I hope these tips help you make the most of your time whilst things are still opening up.

The effect of lockdown on sexual desire

EdBennett — Wed, 07 Apr 2021 22:07:57 +0000

7 Apr 2021 - 23:07 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, sex and Coronavirus

Lockdown in the UK has brought with is a host of changes. The high streets are quiet, the restaurants are empty, the pubs are like ghost towns. Boris Johnson has recently announced an easing of the lockdown across the whole of the UK. England and Wales will start to open up and Scotland and Ireland will likely follow. The vaccination program in England in particular has been very successful, and we have a lot of the population vaccinated. When things open up things should get better. Till then, things are still mostly closed and our lives are far from being normal. Socialising is at an all-time low. The question for today’s article is: how has this affected our sex lives?

Many people think that lockdown has seen an increase in the amount of sex that people have been having in the last year. There is a logic to this. With nothing else to do but have sex, it makes sense that people are having more of it. With a lot of people also working from home, opportunities to have sex during the day also open up. Those with a fuck buddy have access to sex on tap all the time to have it. More friends-with-benefits relationships have blossomed in the recent year that in previous ones. Turning to a friend for some comfort in this time is natural, and good for you. Sex releases happy hormones that improve mental health and well being, it really is good for everyone! But what do the scientists think?

The Science

Studies have been done over the last year into how much people are having sex and sexual desire. A study conducted and posted by the Journal of Sex Research looked into sexual desire during COVID-19 and the effect it had on 500+ British people ages 18-32 years old. The study came out with some surprising results. It seems that whilst sexual desire from men remained consistent, sexual desire in women actually reduced rather than increased. There seemed to be a strong connection as well between those in serious relationships vs adult or casual relationships. Those in steady relationships displayed an increase in sexual activity, whilst those in casual relationships saw a significant drop in sexual activity. This does seem somewhat against accepted logic. However, the study did not distinguish between those in casual relationships who had an existing fuck buddy, or friends with benefits, against those without, and I think that this may also have played a factor.

So with the easing of lockdown, it does seem like access to sex and sexual activity is going to be on the increase, to the benefit of all. Bring on the coming months!

Covid-19: turbo charging the fuck buddy relationship

EdBennett — Sun, 28 Mar 2021 23:01:25 +0000

29 Mar 2021 - 00:01 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex

When we first meet someone we fancy, things have a certain pace. You see the person, you like them, you engineer a reason to go and talk to them, you get a number. From there you do some texting meet up another time or two, and then boom you are having sex. That is a very usual and acceptable speed.

Things usually go a little faster in the adult dating world. When you are looking for a fuck buddy, a hook up, or just a friends with benefits, things tend to move at a much faster speed. On a night out that would mean seeing someone you fancy, engineering a reason to go and meet them, and if things go well, then you are likely to find yourself having sex that same night.

Covid-19 has turbocharged the entire process, and now everything happens much quicker. What used to be a mini courtship in one night no longer even takes that one night. With an inability to go out easily and meet people, things have turned online. People meet each other digitally, they maybe text a bit or do a video call… and that is all that is needed before the next stage of having sex. What used to take an entire night out can now be done counting time in just a couple of hours. Things are moving at a lightning speed and people are hooking up with a fuck buddy faster than ever before. Why is this happening you may ask?

I think this comes down to necessity. The basic drive to have sex remains stronger than ever. The pandemic has not reduced it, if anything it has increased it! There is plenty of science that proves that in times of danger and perceived death, our sexual desire is increased. We are more likely to find someone sexually attractive if we are in danger than if we are not. The theory is that it is our survival instinct, if we think we are going to die we want to pass on our genes before we cork it! So people want to have sex more than ever before.

The pandemic means that meeting people face to face and going through that ritual is just no longer possible, which means that instead they do it online and they do it quickly. There is no point in waiting about, if you like someone, you just go for it and jump into bed with them. This has been excellent for so many people, but had you asked me a year ago I would never have predicted it.

So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, now is an outstanding time to get one!

The Fuck Buddy Winners and Losers of COVID-19

EdBennett — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 08:23:24 +0000

18 Mar 2021 - 08:23 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus and sex, sex and Coronavirus

The coronavirus pandemic has brought huge disruption to the day to day lives of people not just in this country, but the global population as a whole. Jobs have been lost, companies have been shut down, and certain industries have been decimated. On the social front, lockdown to the various strictness and degrees that it has been rolled out has separated friends and families, stopped people seeing loved ones and interacting with friends, and it has prevented people from meeting new people and partners. In so many ways, lockdown and the whole pandemic has sucked.

For those in the adult dating world, the change has been felt just as much as anywhere else. The ability to easily meet new people has been curtailed, the usually meeting places have been shut down, and the rules have been rewritten. Using a condom is no longer enough protection when shielding against in a curable STD is now secondary to shielding against a deadly virus that can kill you and can be transmitted not just in a kiss, but by breathing the same air as someone else. There have been clear winners and losers for those with fuck buddies or in the dating world, and we can broadly break those down into discrete groups of people.

Those with existing fuck buddies they liked before any kind of lockdown occurred.

These people were the clear winners. Lock down saw a lot of people work from home which freed up more time and energy with which to have sex. This meant that those with pre-existing fuck buddies or hook ups in place could take advantage of that and have a lot more sex, and at different times in the day to usual as well. They did very well on the sex front.

Those without a fuck buddy they liked before the pandemic occurred.

The barriers to entry shot up and it became significantly harder to meet people once the pandemic had started. Those who were caught in the unfortunate window of not having a fuck buddy generally did worse. They had to work a lot harder to find one, and there was almost certainly an extended gap between seeking and finding due to the increased difficulty.

Those who had a “friend” that they could convert.

A ‘friends with benefits’ relationship is one of the best around, especially if the person really was a friend beforehand. The lockdown has meant that converting a lose friendship or acquaintance into a friend with benefits has been much easier than in normal times. Suddenly it is a very real and good solution for both parties. So these people have done well, but they are a much smaller group than the two above.

So those broadly have been the winners and loser so the coronavirus pandemic. Ultimately, everyone can make it happen if they want. So if you are looking for a fuck buddy, why not jump online and send someone a message now?

Sex games to play with a fuck buddy during the coronavirus lock down

EdBennett — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 09:02:04 +0000

29 Jan 2021 - 09:02 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, COVID-19 sex, Coronavirus Sex

The coronavirus lockdown continues and with it more time spent unable to leave the house to do anything meaningful. Some of us work from home, some of us are on furlough, some of us are simply no longer in a job. We spend a lot of time in our four walls.

The purchasing of board games during COVID-19 has spiked as people look or ways to entertain themselves whilst in the house. Why should this be any different for you and your fuck buddy? There are a ton of games that can be played between the two of you without breaking any lock down rules. So instead of feeling bored, pick one of these coronavirus lock down games, grab your fuck buddy and be prepared to have fun!

Strip Twister

We all know and love the game twister… here is twister, with a twist! Every time one of you falls over you have to remove one of your clothing items. It is a great way to slowly build up to being naked, and you may well even find some new sex positions in the process!

What’s in the hat?

You will need a hat for this, and some paper. Write down easy to execute desires on slips of paper then put them in the hat. This can be as simple as kiss me passionately, to more racy requests. Then take it in turns to pick them out and action them for your fuck buddy. The extra fun part? You may end up introducing your fuck buddy to your favourite things as you end up doing for them what you wanted done for yourself!

Lottery role play!

Put a bunch of sexy costumes in a box, fireman’s hat, police hat and cuffs etc. Pick one out at random then play out a scenario involving it. Done!

Time Bomb

You will need an egg timer, clock, or you can use the countdown clock from your phone to make this work. Pick a time between you, 20 mins for example is an easy starting point. During that time you are to kiss and tease each other. Foreplay is the name of the game. However, during that time neither you nor your fuck buddy are allowed to come near penetration, even if you both want it. As soon as that timer goes off, you can get to it. This is a great game that really focuses you both on each other’s bodies and building up the pleasure. You can play it more than once, increasing the timer each time to make it harder in all senses of the word!

COVID and Sex: the Christmas updates

EdBennett — Wed, 23 Dec 2020 14:15:46 +0000

23 Dec 2020 - 14:15 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, Christmas Jumpers Sexy

Welcome to December and one of the most unusual Christmas holidays that we have seen here in the UK in many years. Up until recently it was thought that no matter what part of England, Wales or Scotland you lived, you were going to be able to spend 5 days with your friends and family. That all changed just 48 hours ago when major announcements made first Boris Johnson then other leaders across the country were made. There is apparently a new strain of the virus that is easier to catch, it seems we have it in the UK, and it is spreading fast. This has meant the unfortunate result that they have pretty much cancelled Christmas. This is all following weeks of the country being told that cancelling Christmas would be “inhumane” which whilst I feel is somewhat of an exaggeration, it was a strong promise that was gone back on.

What does this mean for my sex life?

What does this all mean for your sex life? Well the first thing is that if you are looking for a fuck buddy and don’t have one, hooking up right now is going to be a little harder. The Christmas period is usually a great time to do some adult dating. Everyone wants someone to kiss under the mistletoe at this time of year. Whilst Christmas is usually a family affair, New Years is a great time to pick someone up / be picked up! People are out, having fun, and everyone is out to have fun! It is often literally the very last chance to have sex in 2020 and people want to take advantage of that. Fair enough I say. The new announcements are going to make that difficult, the main reason being is the closing of many of the pubs and other gathering places across the country.

I don’t have a fuck buddy right now. What can I do about it?

It seems that meeting someone online is currently the best way to find a fuck buddy or a no strings attached relationship. People have become more open to meeting online and are using the extra tools that it provides. It has become normal to do video calls with people that you haven’t met as a way of getting to know them. This means that you can see what people look like before you meet them and see if you get on. With a decent webcam, you can even have some flirty fun whilst online before you have ever met in person!

Find a fuck buddy to bring into your bubble!

EdBennett — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 15:45:36 +0000

28 Aug 2020 - 16:45 | Tags: COVID-19 sex, meet online

The last few months have seen unprecedented times her in the UK. The lockdown measures in response to the coronavirus have caused a huge shift in the way that we live our lives. Where once we would go to clubs, pubs or cafes to meet and date, none of that has been able to happen. We now live our lives on zoom or other video sharing software. Our commutes to work consist of rolling out of bed 5 mins before our 9am meeting and making sure that our webcam is turned off before joining that meeting. Socialising is generally restricted to interacting with people we already know or have prior relationships with. Meeting new people, especially trying to do adult dating or finding a fuck buddy, has become hard.

That being said, now is the perfect time to have a fuck buddy. We have to interact within limited ‘bubbles’ so if we did have one, we could bring them into our ‘bubble’ and have as much sex as we like without any of strings attached to a traditional relationship. We have more time at home than ever before, which gives us more access to the bedroom than ever before! Ever wanted to get a blow job whilst in a meeting? Well now you can have your girl on her knees in front of you whilst you attend your meeting via zoom with your laptop on the breakfast bar or standing desk! Have you ever felt that your whole working day would be better if you could take sex breaks instead of coffee breaks during the day? Well, now you can! Schedule a ‘quickie’ in the calendar of you and your fuck buddy for 11:30 and I am sure that your work productivity will shoot through the roof! So now really is the best time to have one, but if you are currently not in a no strings attached relationship, how can you find one? The answer: online.

We have all become more used to do everything online in the last few months, and so dating online has never been more normal or had more people doing it. People now have video calls before meeting in person, and in some cases, the sexting starts well before the first sexual encounter. There has never been a better time to jump onto a website like f-buddy to find a friends with benefits.

So if you are lacking a fuck buddy to bring into your bubble, now is the perfect time to change that.

Having a fuck buddy during the Coronavirus is amazing

EdBennett — Sat, 30 May 2020 16:05:30 +0000

30 May 2020 - 17:05 | Tags: Coronavirus and sex, COVID-19 sex

Sex is amazing. It is one of the fundamental pleasures of this life in this world. The interesting thing is that despite its place as one of the greatest things ever to exist, it is also one of the pleasures that every person, man or woman, has access to no matter their station. You don’t need to have a job to have sex, it doesn’t cost any money to have sex (though admittedly a certain amount of money can help the courtship process), you don’t need to have power or status. Sex is something that everyone can access, and your position in society has no reflection on your ability to enjoy sex. Whether you are a king or a street sweeper, both can experience sex to similar heights of ecstasy, though the king may do so in a more comfortable setting!

We are living in strange times. The coronavirus pandemic has swept across the world and it has changed what people can and cannot do day-to-day. So many of the activities that used to bring the bulk of your joy have been denied to you. No longer can you easily meet friends for a drink, go to the cinema, bowling, dancing. If you were someone who once attended clubs or classes, they may be held online but it is a poor substitution to the social gathering it was before. It may well be that you have not seen close friends or family members that are dear to you for a very long time now. You may even find yourself counting time by months now instead of days or weeks as you once did. For so many during the COVID-19 outbreak, it may be that you are just killing time.

There are many things that can really help your life right now. One of those things Is a fuck buddy. With the world in shut down, it appears that one of the greatest joys in life is still available to you. If you have a fuck buddy, you still have access to sex on tap. It doesn’t matter if you have a job or not, whether you are furloughed or fired. If you have a fuck buddy, this time could be fucking amazing! So many days and nights where there is nothing to do *but* have sex. Since all other things have been stripped away, you have more time and energy to think about your sex sessions. People are becoming more creative in the bedroom, they are thinking about things and making plans to ensure that their sessions get better and better.

The coronavirus outbreak is one of the best times to have a fuck buddy. I hope that you are one of the lucky few.