Male sex questions that may never truly be answered

EdBennett — Tue, 28 Aug 2018 15:16:02 +0000

28 Aug 2018 - 16:16 | Tags: what men want in bed, what women want

If you were born in a man’s body at some point in your life, at least once, you have probably wondered what it would be like to live in a woman’s body. This is not necessarily to do with sexuality, but more simple curiosity. Growing up as a boy into a man, you learn, over time, what it means to live in a mans body. The way that the changes and hormones affect you, the way that people treat you because of the way that you look, the different feelings that you can experience. Once you are post-puberty, most men become very interested in women. We learn, over time and experience, what we think women feel and think… and this is especially true in the sexual marketplace. When you make your female fuck buddy come, what does it really feel like? It feels like as a woman having a hook up is easy… but how true is it really? What do boobs feel like when they are caressed from the other side? The only way to truly know what all these feel like, to really get inside the body, mind and feeling of your female fuck buddy, would be to spend a day in their shoes, but this is impossible. So we have to guess based on the evidence. So what are the things men would most like to know about being a female in a “friends with benefits” relationship that they will never truly know?

Are female orgasms as amazing as they sound

It seems that women have the capacity to orgasm in a way that men don’t. I have never heard a man say that the sex was so good, that they were left shaking uncontrollably and limpless in a pool of their own orgasmic juices. There is no way to compare though, so we will never know if it really is that much better for women as it is for men.

Is it just as good when you touch your own boobs?

Women loving having their boob touched as much as men like touching them. Is it the same when they do it to themselves, and if it is, do they secretly spend all their time just playing with themselves when they are in private?

Are other women attractive?

It is generally accepted that the female form is aesthetically more pleasing than the male form… so do women find other women attractive? They talk about other girls being “hot” – but do they actually feel it, or is it just detached commentary?

…I could go on, but we will never know for sure. If you find a fuck buddy that gives you a convincing answer on any of the above, send it quoting this article and I will publish it on this site!

What Men Want In Bed

jeni — Mon, 03 Jun 2013 08:00:00 +0000

3 Jun 2013 - 09:00 | Tags: better in bed for men, what men want in bed

There are literally hundreds of articles both online and off about what women want in the bedroom. Yet there is next to nothing about what men want in the bedroom. Does this mean that men don’t care about what they want as long as they’re getting laid? Not at all. We went on a bit of a mission to try and redress this balance and conducted a survey on 100 men to get their opinion on what does it for them in the bedroom.

So what makes sex hot for a guy?

“Desire. The feeling that she wants it just as much as I do makes it amazing. After that it doesn’t really matter what we do in the bedroom as whatever we do, the sex is great!”
Paul, 36, IT Engineer

Paul’s testimony seems to be reflected by a number of other guys we surveyed as well.

“The biggest turn off for me is when my girlfriend considers sex a chore – like it’s a domestic task she has to deal with and get out of the way. That just makes me frustrated and not interested in sleeping with her at all.”
Alistair, 32, Personal Trainer

The general consensus we got back from the survey was that men generally want to feel that the woman wants sex more then they do. Desire appears to be more prevalent in their minds then anything else. Yet that can’t be the whole truth can it? Surely men want women to do certain things in the bedroom that turn them on?

“Enthusiasm and willingness to try different things always does it for me. I went out with one girl who wanted to always turn the lights off when having sex and would rarely want to do it during the day. I didn’t date her for very long. Then I went out with a girl who was constantly delighted when I suggested a new position or asked if I could tie her up! She loved trying new things and that just made me even hornier. I then figured out what it was about her that just made me want to shag her all the time – enthusiasm! She was so happy and ready to try all sorts that it just always put a big grin on my face. It made me feel needed and that was awesome!”
John, 27, Production Manager

John liked it when the girl was willing to experiment and try lots of different things, but again you’ll notice that he mentions the word ‘enthusiasm’ several times. Again this ‘need’ or ‘desire’ that the girl wants the man just as much as he wants her seems to be the number one priority for good sex.

So ladies, if you’re reading this right now and you’re looking to get a new fuck buddy or simply spice things up with a current one; desire is crucial. Want sex and the guy just as much as the guy wants you and you’ll most likely find yourself with a one way ticket to pleasure land.

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Male sex questions that may never truly be answered

Are female orgasms as amazing as they sound

Is it just as good when you touch your own boobs?

Are other women attractive?

What Men Want In Bed