If you’re still nursing a hangover after Christmas then you might be looking for something to distract you from all that food, booze and awkward family conversations. The usual round of ‘are you seeing anyone at the moment?’ is enough to drive most people up the wall, but at Christmas it becomes even more annoying and unpleasant.
So what is the solution?
Well there are a number of ways you can deal with the awkward family situation this Christmas. Have a look at some of our suggestions and if you need to, try a few of them out.
Hop online and message at least 5 people on a dating site
So you’re single. So what! It’s not the end of the world and in actual fact offers you a great opportunity to sharpen your dating and sex skills. We could sound like a walking advert here and roll out the usual commercial tripe telling you to ‘try our site’ and ‘there are hundreds of girls waiting just for you’. We could do that but we won’t. At the end of the day, you have to put the effort into finding a partner – casual or otherwise. So instead of nursing your hangover in shame, why don’t you message at least 5 people you like the look of online? There’s no harm in doing it and you have nothing to lose.
Reflect but don’t dwell
Have a review of how you’ve done dating wise this year. Ask yourself how many people you’ve slept with? Have you been happy with every one? Have you discovered that you like certain types of men or women over others? Do you have any regrets?
Make Realistic Resolutions regarding your sex and dating life
Too many people make the mistake of making a huge list of New Year’s resolutions that they never manage to keep. They never manage to keep them because the resolutions are way too complicated and difficult to complete. Instead make just a few realistic resolutions that you know you will be able to try and keep. For example; if you’ve only slept with 2 people this year, set yourself a target of sleeping with 2 more next year. If you’re becoming fed up with casual dating, set yourself the target of meeting up with people and seeing if you actually have a strong enough connection to want to sleep with them. You shouldn’t just be having sex with people for the sake of having sex. It’s never that much fun.
Be realistic and you're more likely to achieve those resolutions.
Be positive
No one wants to date or sleep with a miserable person. Enter 2014 by being as positive as you can. The only way to be successful in dating and indeed life…is to go forward and show the world your best side.
Happy fucking!
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