Welcome to the f-buddy blog, where we make sure that when you find your friend with benefits and you come to fuck them, that you not only fuck them good, you have an amazing time yourself! We understand here at f-buddy that it’s not only about quantity; it’s about quality as well. There is something to be said for having lots of sex with lots of different women, and I am all for it! In fact many people here on this site take that exact approach, with the blessings and encouragement of each of the women that they are sleeping with. We are not anti that at all, and there is no reason you cannot have quantity and quality, as many of the men here stand as evidence that this is all too possible. So how can you make sure that you have not just good sex, but great sex?
In part’s 1 and part 2 we talked about the importance of trying to find the things that are usually around / happening when you have great sex. Once you identify these things, just work to bring them into the mix again each time you go on to have more sex and you are more likely to go from good to great sex pretty quickly. Given that each person is different, it stands to reason that for each person a different thing will make them have great sex. However there are some common things that most people say work for them, and that’s what we cover here. In parts 1 and 2 we spoke about emotion and horniness. Here’s the next step:
Make them come hard – and you will come harder!
The altruistic thing of “your joy is my joy” is a romantic notion that is not really appropriate for the fuck buddy field... or is it? Well here is the thing, it seems that one of the keys to amazing sex for most people is that the other person is having an amazing time. When the other person is really turned on, that makes you in turn more turned on making it better for you. It is also way more than even that! When the other person is really coming hard, and you know that they are going to come hard, that is when you can really relax. That is the moment you can truly and deeply let go of everything and really orgasm yourself. You know that the other person is sorted, that they are having a great time, so that leaves space for YOU to relax and have a great time.
Turn them on, work on making sure they are loving it, and damn you will love it even more as a result.
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