Okay so we all love sex. Even the people that say they don’t are lying. They do like sex, they just don’t want to say it. This could be for a number of reasons. Some people have real trouble getting laid so they want to lie to themselves about not wanting it in the first place, that way they are not a failure because they “didn’t want it anyway”. This is a little like being back in the playground at school when you didn’t want the ball anyway - just after someone stole the ball you were really enjoying playing with. It is a lie, but you go with it because it is better than the reality.
Some people have a partner, and the sex has gotten boring or worse still it is no longer even happening because things have gotten mundane. They have gotten so boring you both gave up. When this happens people are trapped in their situation, and they start to feel like maybe they didn’t really want to have sex anyway. Same lie, different reason. When this happens you have 3 choices:
Fix the problem somehow and start having great sex together
Start sleeping with someone else, either as an affair or you can be open about it and get a fuck buddy or another no strings attached relationship. If you take this route, I would go for the later of these two options. It always works out better in the longer term.
Break up.
What you can not do is stay where you are. Do not, under any circumstances stay still. That is ot a good place for either of you to be, so man up and do something about it, even though what you have to do may be one of the hardest things you have done in your life.
How to rekindle the fire / have better sex
So one of the top tips to have better sex – which can also be used to re kindle a dying fire, is change something. We all like stuff to be different, to change. We all like new things and variation. It is amazing what a difference even the smallest change can make. Buy a new outfit – don’t let her see – then take her out to dinner before fucking her brains out. Even you looking different to how she is used to can help you to stir things up. Making her look at you differently in any way will do the same thing – because it is different, it shakes things up. Don’t worry about the change being too small – anything will have an effect. The bigger the change, the larger it will stoke the sexual heat.
So go ahead and mix it up a little, you won’t regret it. More articles on how to have amazing sex here.
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