sex fantasies
Understand your fuck buddy: why people lie about what they want in bed
Sex is a natural process and, frankly, everyone should be having more of it. I have said it before and I will say it again, if more people were having more sex, we would all be in a happier place! One way of increasing the quality of your sex is to understand it better. If you can understand your fuck buddy better, the better you can work to please each other more and more. Sex, whilst it really is a natural process, is also a complicated thing! Some people have studied it for a lifetime and never managed to learn everything about it. It has a complex science behind it… but when actioned...
Explore both your fantasies
Everyone has fantasies, and I am not talking about dreams of being a wizard or growing up at Hogwarts. Everyone has sexual fantasies, whether they talk about them or not (and this being Britian I expect that “not” is the go to for most folk). We wake up, we brush our teeth, comb our hair, waist anything up to an hour of our lives commuting to a job, and when there spend the day seeming respectable and smart. We all appear “normal” and that is what we are striving for. However underneath that outer exterior of straight laced sensibleness, in the depths of our carnal desires lies our sexual...
Is it okay to fantasise about someone else when you’re having sex?
In relationships, fantasising about someone else whilst you’re having sex is often called ‘emotional cheating’. But is it? We all indulge in sexual fantasy as par for the course so it is it really that surprising that we often fantasise about people other than the person we’re actually having sex with at that point? I don’t think so and neither does respected sex therapist David Schnarch who interviewed for The Daily Beast a few years ago. Imagining yourself having sex with anyone other than your partner when masturbating for example is cited a normal healthy sexual behaviour. There...
